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WhiteApple 6 Reviews 1081 reads
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1 / 21

I'm going through BP and myproviderguide and found couple of cute providers I would really like to see.  

I did a thorough Google search with their phone numbers and images from the ads and nothing comes up.  The number seems like a new number and images aren't stolen from anywhere.

Is it a pretty risky move to see providers without any reviews online? or am I just being overly paranoid here?

What should a newbie do at this point

September24 16 Reviews 821 reads
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2 / 21

Why take a risk?  Certainly you can find some equally attractive but also well-reviewed ladies in your area, no?

WhiteApple 6 Reviews 881 reads
posted
4 / 21

Why the risk?

TER has a smaller pool of ladies to choose from and prices tend to be higher for the "established" providers.

Also, the ladies I'm finding on the ad sites are pretty darn cute!

I don't know really know how common LE sting operations are on the ad sites.  I'm aware that it's best to stick to well reviewed providers.

It seems that some people like to TOFTT, but I'm not quite sure how risky it would be

DixieJay 815 reads
posted
5 / 21

All newbie ladies aren't bad sir;-), but I understand your opinion. Even if the lady isn't reviewed and is pretty active on TER like myself, it should be okay.

Posted By: capebeon
Why the risk?  
   
 TER has a smaller pool of ladies to choose from and prices tend to be higher for the "established" providers.  
   
 Also, the ladies I'm finding on the ad sites are pretty darn cute!  
   
 I don't know really know how common LE sting operations are on the ad sites.  I'm aware that it's best to stick to well reviewed providers.  
   
 It seems that some people like to TOFTT, but I'm not quite sure how risky it would be.  
   
 

natashalynne See my TER Reviews 717 reads
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6 / 21
DixieJay 861 reads
posted
7 / 21

Yikes! Thanks for the info Ms. Natasha because I wanted to visit there this summer. Not too sure now *shrugs shoulders*

Posted By: natashalynne

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natashalynne See my TER Reviews 951 reads
posted
8 / 21

sounds just like the guys who try to bypass screening by saying "but I'm a nice guy."  I wish you the best of luck in getting reviews and being verifiable, but NO, a new hobbyist should NOT be seeing an unreviewed girl.   Especially in a town like Atlanta.  

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WhiteApple 6 Reviews 849 reads
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9 / 21
DixieJay 874 reads
posted
12 / 21

Yes I forgot to mention that in my previous post if she is on Date-Check or P411, but no P411 unless you have reviews or a hobbyist vouches for the provider. I have been Date-Check verified, but not by P411 which sucks lol. It's kind of like getting a security clearance lol. But good luck on your ventures babe;-)

DixieJay 961 reads
posted
13 / 21

Unlike the guys that try to bypass screening methods that's not me. I can provide a reference from a reputable and well reviewed(30 or more) provider. It just gets a little annoying when I see ladies say,"No don't see her because she has no reviews!". While everyone is entitled to their own opinion. I understand the guys being nervous because I never "worked" in my home state before. But at the same time it's more of a contradiction because you were at one time a newbie. So now you have reviews and guys are comfortable with seeing you. Also when I need to verify a client via reference from other reviewed providers, does that mean they can't provide a reference because I am not reviewed? Every lady that has reviews are not good ladies lol. Some have reviews where the guy said she had an odor from her snatch, but she has reviews. It doesn't make sense to me. I think if a lady, like myself puts in so much time, effort, and money into her advertising, there is no way she can be LE. So me and guys saying they are nice and don't want to be screened is two different things. Well in my case anyway because if my friend vouches for me and I'm on a reputable screening site, I should be okay. Besides a lot of the guys I see/have seen know nothing about TER lol.

Posted By: natashalynne
sounds just like the guys who try to bypass screening by saying "but I'm a nice guy."  I wish you the best of luck in getting reviews and being verifiable, but NO, a new hobbyist should NOT be seeing an unreviewed girl.   Especially in a town like Atlanta.  

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DixieJay 254 reads
posted
14 / 21

So is there a "bad rap" for advertising on BP? All of the ladies on BP are not bad. I have seen some well reviewed ladies on there, but it's kind of a damn if you do damn if you don't type thing. I guess it's what you make it, but if it's obvious fake pictures and a potential pimps get away quick lol.

hiddenhills 143 Reviews 302 reads
posted
15 / 21

Yes, there is a "bad rap" concerning BP.  You can do a search on this board using "backpage" as the subject, go back 360 days.   However, in certain areas of the country, BP is all there is,  so many escorts and hobbyists use BP  Right now, in the city I live in, there are a number of top 100 local providers advertising on BP  A smart provider who knows how to screen can use BP effectively. Many new providers also use BP without knowing the reputation that BP has on TER. Once they establish themselves, many stop advertising on BP.  Hobbyists who know how to research also use  BP effectively. The research arsenal that's out there, can keep a hobbyist clear of all the danger.  I could go on and on about BP, but I think you get my drift

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2hot4u2 228 Reviews 822 reads
posted
16 / 21

economical donation.I've got over 110 TOFTT in the Atlanta area, so I KNOW I'm qualified!
 Yes it is safer to see only reviewed providers and there are some gems to be had there.But my suggestion is to daily scan "New Reviews"(make sure the reviewer has at least 3/4 reviews & look @ the reviews!)
We have actually seen  the same provider (but it seems she was more receptive to me dunno.)
  What I can tell you is that yes I routinely find gems on BP , over the years these gems have introduced me to there friends(looking for x-tra cash in such or they are looking to get into the biz),most do this for a very short time.
If you like I can suggest 3/4 UTR spinners( which seems to be your preference) that are close friends that I'm sure you will enjoy.
But ultimately only you can decide if the risk is worth the reward.
                                            Happy hobbying

glowerlord 7 Reviews 212 reads
posted
17 / 21

Backpage is just fine. (Yawn!!) Don't listen to the parrots squawk.

It's unverifiable girls that need to be avoided. Unless you have the chops of a guy like GaGambler, and can spot the fakes from the real one.

DixieJay 193 reads
posted
18 / 21

Yes I do sir and thanks a lot for proving my point. I started out on BP, screened well, and only had one issue with getting robbed but other than that no problem. I also met a lot of great guys on BP. I just don't think it's fair to say all girl that advertise on BP is bad. The same goes for unreviewed girls all of them aren't trouble. I don't know lol some of the girls gave BP a bad rap, but the good ones shouldn't have to suffer for it;-)

Posted By: hiddenhills
Yes, there is a "bad rap" concerning BP.  You can do a search on this board using "backpage" as the subject, go back 360 days.   However, in certain areas of the country, BP is all there is,  so many escorts and hobbyists use BP  Right now, in the city I live in, there are a number of top 100 local providers advertising on BP  A smart provider who knows how to screen can use BP effectively. Many new providers also use BP without knowing the reputation that BP has on TER. Once they establish themselves, many stop advertising on BP.  Hobbyists who know how to research also use  BP effectively. The research arsenal that's out there, can keep a hobbyist clear of all the danger.  I could go on and on about BP, but I think you get my drift  

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DixieJay 221 reads
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19 / 21

So true! I can go on BP right now(even Eros lol) and spot a fake ad. I have seen the same pro pic of a beautiful provider on BP even though I know they are not the pics of the girl in the ad. Spotting the fake is easy as putting frosting on a cake;-)

Posted By: glowerlord
Backpage is just fine. (Yawn!!) Don't listen to the parrots squawk.  
   
 It's unverifiable girls that need to be avoided. Unless you have the chops of a guy like GaGambler, and can spot the fakes from the real one.

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 753 reads
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20 / 21

This is the NEWBIE board, and this advice is what has always been given, and will continue to be. Just because you are active on the boards means nothing...cops are as well. On the other boards, guys and gals are not as insistent on this, but here...it is what it is. Newbies come here to be protected, NOT to take chances. A veteran hobbyist taking a chance is one thing...he has no one but himself to blame if something goes wrong, but not a newbie. We tend to tell them to be the most cautious, because they should be. FYI, it's easy as pie to get on Date Check. I just vouched for a guy I saw THREE years ago, and they accepted it.

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WhiteApple 6 Reviews 1006 reads
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