I know exactly what I want and what I can afford and have found ads for exactly that but my gut says it's to good to be true. I called all the providers though that were interesting and the only time I actualy got an answer was a lady saying,"no new customers" and hung up on me. I'll throw it out there. I'm looking to go Greek in Asia. Without being a VIP this is hard to find. Any advise?

First piece of advice, get VIP.  Since this board deals mainly with providers in the US, I would think it rather unlikely that you will get much help, but who knows?

as the first response mentioned get VIP, even if only for a month, then search here.  No better place to find an escort than here on TER. Make sure she's reviewed and has a website and you may find email may be a better way to contact escorts, rather than phone.  Most if not all your questions should be answered on a lady's web site. Finally, read the self help manual if you haven't already.

I was attempting to use what I thought was escort lingo but I guess I'll have to be more blunt. Basically I just want to have anal sex with an asian. I had a free five-day VIP service but have exhausted my 5 days. I researched and called probably a dozen providers but none of them answered the only answer I got was not from the provider but a woman who told me that she doesn't accept new clients. This may not be for me also because I am worried about being verified and losing my job or being found out or sending money and to get VIP status I don't know how to do that without being traced. And I guess I'm okay with that. There's always the hand when things get desperate. 

viewing of the merchandise.  It is normally the only extra cost option.   I think you had excellant advise...  do your research the final leg of which is to read the full reviews which requires VIP.   If you can afford to play, you can afford a month's VIP.  If you try to go without you likely will spend much more.  
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Ok thank you for being honest. Actualy the I researched extremely thouroughly during my 5 day free trial just returned my email today and has been answering alot of my questions. I've read all her good and bad reviews. If all works well, then I shall defonatly invest. Thanks for the advise and wish me luck