Couple noob questions here.  I've only seen one provider (on a few occasions) and that was incall.  That was years ago and she has since moved on.

I've located a provider that I would like to see, but from her website it seems that her incall location is beyond where I would like to travel (my schedule it too hectic these days).

This leaves me with two questions:

1) I could opt for an outcall to a motel/hotel in my area.  The problem is that I have no intention of staying the whole night. In my experience one genreally "checks out" in the morning. I don't travel much so I don't know if there are any options to allow one to discreetly leave early. Thoughts?

2) What's the general opinion on tipping these days and how should it be done? Another white envelope discretely placed on the counter?

Thanks

I do it all the time, and the FBI hasn't shown up yet in thiry-odd years of doing so.

One caution though, some hotels, not too many but enough to keep divorce courts busy, will mail the bill to you.  Be sure that you list an address (like work or a PO Box) so it doesn't show up where the wifey will see it.

There is no general concensus on what constitutes a proper tip or even that tipping should occur.

You can enter "tipping" into the search feature here and find enough threads to keep you busy through Labor Day.

I generally tip 20% or so on one to two hour appointments as long as I leave a happy camper.  On day long and overnight stays, generally I do not tip.

The hotel really doesn't care when you leave. You have already payed for the room before you even get a key.  I usually stay the night when I do out call but that's only because my favs are both a bit of a drive from where I live. I can and have left right after the appointment on many occasions. No one cares.

My two distinguished hobbyists are 100% correct. Most of the hotels where I stay slip the bill under the door sometime after midnight, so I never "check out." Some other helpful hints: act like you belong there, blend in with the other guests, be courteous to the hotel staff, and don't call attention to yourself.

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If she asks you if she can stay in the room after you leave, the answer is NO. If you make the reservation in your name, and she stays after you leave, well you can figure out what might happern. Some guys ask the lady to make the hotel reservation, and then give the lady cash for the room rate. That way no trail left behind in your name. As far as tipping goes, the best tip is to book another visit with the lady. Good luck

If you want to avoid the possibility of a bill entirely try booking the room through Priceline.  It certainly won't cost you any more and may in fact cost you much less (I get $130 a night 3 star rooms for $40 a night when I go to see my ATF).  Since you are paying Priceline on line at the time of the booking there is never a bill generated in your name.

The downside is that you can't cancel up to an hour before the way you can with a regular reservation.  All in all it has worked well for me but every situation is different.

Yep ,that is the way to go split the room difference if she will and let her get the room .You are also covered if she decides to no show on your ass

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so...

just leave. it's the easiest thing to do. remember, this is a contractual transaction - you have valued her time, and she has valued yours. nothing else matters.

i have rented hotel rooms, and everything has gone well. i totally recommend hotwire and other travel sites for finding rooms in hotels for evening encounters. none of the companions i've experienced have ever monkeyed with that. watch out for yourself, and take serious precautions, and everything will be perfect.

na z'drowie,

karlos

Thanks for all the helpful replies everyone. I've been away from the hobby too long and it's time to try something new.