Ok so what the f*** is a reference? I'm trying to book these k girls and they are more complicated to book than any other ones. The bookers keep asking for references, what the f*** is that? i'm new but goddamn! can't a newbie just get some too? Plz help!!!

Providers have different levels of verification for their safety and yours. While it may seem a hassle or a hudrle to someone getting started in the hobby, if you look at this from the point of view of a provider whether an Indie or an Agency, safety has to be of paramount importance to them.  They are having a close encounter with a stranger.  They have to verify your background at a level that will allow them to feel safe for their own protection.

Some providers are "newbie friendly"  and do lighter screening, but most will require vouches or a type of an okay from another provider or in some cases other providers, and in the cases of some agencies, providers from other agencies. P411 and DateCheck are two widely used verification sites.

www.preferred411.com
http://www.date-check.com/

It costs about $100 to join P411 for example, and they will verifiy you quickly and discreetly.  You will have a basic rating, and after you see a provider who  is a member, you can request an "okay" which they can give you by logging in--it takes them about 30 seconds to do.  P411 lists providers in your area or other areas, and they have international members--about 10,000 providers and they will designate if a provider is "newbie friendly."

If you join a verification service like P411 or Date Check it will help you.  You can  search TER often and get a thread that answers a question, or you can search Google or Bing with your topic typing in "the erotic review" in the search term.

Here's a typical thread on verification:
http://e.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewAll.asp?MessageID=92574&boardID=33&page=10&view=2

Good luck,

JeffEng16





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Since you're 2 reviews are done in LA, the previous advisory post is incorrect. K girl bookers will only take references from other k girl bookers. P411 or any other screening service will not work. k girl bookers will sometimes, however, take a reference from a kgirl indie.  

And why are you TOFTT with providers? See well reviewed providers and I'm guessing you never read the self help center either. Take a look at it, back on the mainn page of the newbie board, upper right hand corner..



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I missed the k girl reference but it's no biggie.  99% of people on  TER or 99.9999999% don't know or care what a k girl is, but I respect you want to see one.  So see a k girl indie or 2 or 10. How difficult is that?  One k girl indie according to ole hidden lol who rebuked me for my post which will help any newbie who doesn't care about a k girl and isn't in LA, will do  the trick.

Looks like you're on your way to kgirl paradise in LA and hopefully the indie will  be great as well.

Look up  Paulie Walnuts' reviews in the LA area on TER. I don't know if the girls he saw are "k girls" but if you trust his reviews, they were outstanding in the  looks and performance department.

And to ole hidden who is setting himself up as the arbiter of what a quality post is, lighten up and focus on helpin' the OPs.

Happy Happy kgirlin'.

JeffEng16

LOL
K-girl = Korean provider.
Very common in Los Angeles especially. Check out the LA regional board and you will find many, many threads about K-girls.

But hiddenhills went a little overboard in a PM to me outraged that I posted.  I don't know how I missed it in his original post so of course my advice really of how to get some help from TER didn't much apply.

hiddenhills seems to know them so apparently there was a way for the OP to get a reference by seeing one who was an Indie which means I guess that some of the k girls from the agency go Indie and they'll accept their former members/

Sorry I missed the OP's reference.  Had I seen it  I wouldn't have posted at all because I didn't know what a kgirl was and I also didn't drill into his reviews to see that he must be in the LA area.
Not knowing what a kgirl was, had I not missed it, I wouldn't have posted.

They want new clients, just like any provider. Keep trying. See a few Asian indys in LA. Eventually you will get in -- IF you are polite, respectful and persistent.

Also, once you are in, treat the ladies like gold. If you don't, you will quickly find yourself banned with little hope of getting back into the wonderful k-world.

Another tip -- you have negative reviews connected to your profile. If you give your TER ID, many providers won't see you simply for that reason. I'm not recommending that you take them down. I'm all for honest reviews. But you should know, there is a price for it.

to give advice on this board which is probably what hiddenhills objected to. Making blanket statements does not always answer the questions.

You have two reviews, both of which are bad.  Seems to me that you are not being very diligent in researching your providers.  That's what VIP is for, and research is the key to successful hobbying.  See some well-reviewed providers for more enjoyable dates.

Swim

doubt are going to run to the phone to give him the ok.

even if he gave these gals 10/10, and they had lots of other reviews with 10/10, and they were willing to give him glowing references, it still wouldn't mean a hill of beans to the kgirl bookers!

However even thought the bookers don't accept good references from outside the k girl world, I wouldn't be surprised if they pay attention to bad references or reviews from outside their little world!

frequent Cali either. I would probably still insist she had a six month review history on TER, because I couldn't give two shits about what her booker said.

If the kgirl bookers don't take "outside' references, why should the "outside" girls take k girl references? I wouldn't expect it. I'm also not sure that the bookers would give references anyway, other than to the other bookers. I was only pointing out that the OP is trying to get into the K girl world, so the outside references aren't going to help him anyway, even if he had great reviews of great gals, and the two bad reviews may or may not have any bearing on his kgirl entrance.

Here's my experience of booking with k-girls simply because I broke through that wall tonight.  I'm still a newb and I had only seen one true provider previously.  I wanted to see if I could hook up with a k-girl as they are close by me and convenient for me to see them, so I spent two days at work doing little work but stealthily looking at reviews and calling.... looking and calling.  And finally a booker picked up and when I asked if the certain girl was available, he said she left town but he had a new girl available... and he just set me up... and then called me back and said "oh, i need some references" after he set a time and place already!  I told him I had one and he asked me to text it to him.  He didn't screen all that well and the girl was great

Now I'm trying to figure out how to review her since, it turns out, she is not reviewed here... which is kind of scary but she was really grand and I will go back to see her again.