And well you should! There are great opinions and advice on just about every topic regarding P4P here.

What I will say in regards to making the provider feel comfortable with you is this.  Arrive on time, freshly showered (or prepared to take one). Be polite to the lady and respectful of her, her time and her body. Place the donation in plain sight when you enter the in call. NEVER make her ask for it or wonder when you are going to produce it.  Don't ask specific questions about activities until she feels comfortable with you.  The fact that you are a newbie is not as important to them as it is to you but, with the right lady, it is still worth mentioning.

Don't go in to this endeavor with any sort of pre-conceived notions about the ladies that you are going to see.  They are just people like you and me. Yes, they are beautiful women and yes they are offering you their bodies for your enjoyment but you are paying for it in cold hard cash.  It's a job to them. A great provider will never make you feel like she is punching a time clock but you must always remember why you are both in the room.  You are there to get off, she is there to get paid.

Good luck! Enjoy!

Hey everyone,

Looking for some advice and a little knowledge before I begin my venture into this world of "Hobbyism". I have quite a few questions, so I appologize in advance for those of you vets and providers who are brave enough to answer this newbies inquies.

Fist let me start with probably one of the most common questions. Many providers do light to full screening. What exactly is involved in this. I've gone to a few of the websites, such as CV, RB, even here. But they don't ask for any information on or give any clue to what is involved.

I understand the need for the protection of the provider. It's obviously hard to be upfront about things when the other half of our public eye views what we do as not normal. So how do I make the provider I choose feel more comfortable with me and not view me as a potential bad experience that she would not want to try?

Also. What is the best way to let the provider know that you are a newbie and give her the chance to work within those means as so not to make her nervious about it any more then the both of you have to be.

I understand thAt being a newbie comes with its initial "hurtles" to over come. But understanding and being prepaired for them is a whole different story. I want my first "session" to go as well for her as it will for me. So any advice would greatly be appriciated from vets and providers alike.

Thanks everyone,
NewHobbyGuy12

and obviously if you are a newbie, you won't have any.

So, what you must do is to give them enough personal information about yourself to make them feel comfortable.  It should go without saying that you should not give this information to anyone but the most well reviewed and long standing gals by dint of their reviews and/or presence on the boards her at TER (or elsewhere).

As for what kind of personal information they would want, your name and address and home and cell phone numbers for starters, along with where you work and the address and phone number of same.  If they call there, they will use a convenient cover story like they are calling from your dentist's office to confirm an appointment, etc.

You might also consider joining a screen site such as Room Service 2000 or Date Check.  These have a lot of credibility with the gals.  These places will also want similar information.

Finally, I make the following three suggestions:

1.  Become a VIP member of TER so that you can read the reviews.

2.  Read the Newbie Manual, aka Self Help Guide that you will find linked on this page.

3.  Read the website of any prospective escort very thoroughly and follow the gal's instructions on how to make contact, etc. to the letter.

You will find the hobby very user friendly if you do all of the above.

Welcome and best wishes.

In the blue box on the main page. Locate "search" click on it. Then in subject type search. For days try 360  and then let the search engine do it's thing. Your questions about screening is one of the most asked questions. You can also just scroll back page after page of this board to look for this topic. Finally on the main page of this board in red letters is "self help"  Explore all that is there. good luck

Depending on where you are or plan to be, a massage parlor might be place to get your feet wet. You should stick to reviewed places so you know what kind of massage you'll be getting. Some of them might just want to see an ID at the door before letting you in the first time. AMP is Asian massage parlor but there are other incall agency places, sometimes ethnic (Russian MP, Latina MP) or totally mixed. In NY, you will not get full GFE at most AMPs (except for the high end agencies) but can still have enough of an experience to know what to anticipate from independents. But still, read and compare the reviews first!