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I just looked at your wbsite. I like your pictures. You have an exotic look. If you offer good service at fair rates you will do well. I highly suggest you improve your website though. Not enough information. The main thing missing is your location. And I am not talking detailed location, but general location. Are you in New York? Vegas? Florida? Chicago? We have no clue looking at your site. You don't need a fancy website, but it should have your location, a little about yourself, your rates, links to your reviews (once you get some) and a few more pictures. There are several "build it yourself" template type websites that escorts use. As you get more established, you can buid a better one. You can start off with a simple basic one, but right now I think yours is a little too basic. (At a minimum, add location, rates, a little intro text, and a few more pics)

Goof luck

What is the difference between being an escort and being a GFE? Don't mean to be naive but I'm new.

Welcome to TER. and don't worry at all about being naive or new:) This is the right board. The host swimtreker, and many seasoned hobbyists, as well as providers (Swim fondly calls all of us his "highly unpaid assistants") are here to share information with newbies.

I recommend you check out the self help guide to the top right of this page under the life preserver. Read all the links in that guide. There is information for hobbyists as well as providers. There is a list of definitions and acronyms as part of those links. You should also read up on this board, back 10 pages or so, and you will see lots of questions and answers about different things related to this "hobby." You can also use the "search" feature to look for posts to answer other questions you may have. You'll find most questions have been asked and answered already. But you can also feel free to come back and ask more if you don't find what you are looking for.

The term"GFE" stands for "Girl Friend Experience." so a GFE escort would be expected to give you the same experiece you would get with a girlfriend. The problem is many people put different meanings to the term, and there never is nor will there ever be total agrrement on what gfe stands for. To some it means certain acts will be performed during the session, such as bbbj, daty, dfk, (If you don't know those terms you will find them in the list of definitions and acronyms in the self help center. You can also find those on "urbandictionary.com") To others it means lots of foreplay, cuddling, kissing, and a general feeling that the session is not a busines transaction.

You have to decide what you are comfortable providing to customers. Some ladies offer a limited menu, and some offer an almost unlimited menu. It's at your comfort and risk level, and your menu will also affect your customer base.

Besides reading the self help guide and the questions on this board, you may also want to check out your home regional board. Also if you are not VIP, I would recommend you sign up for VIP membership for at least one month (it's 30 bucks well spent) It will allow you use of the PM system so you can Private message members here, (including other providers for tips, etc.) and also allow you to read the juicy details of the reviews. This way you can see what the other gals are doing, and what might or might not be expected of you. Once you have a review here, you can actually get a limited provider VIP for free. With the free VIP you will still be able to use the PM system, and you can read the juicy details of your own reviews, but not others.

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Thanks again for the info, perfectstorm.

I just looked at your wbsite. I like your pictures. You have an exotic look. If you offer good service at fair rates you will do well. I highly suggest you improve your website though. Not enough information. The main thing missing is your location. And I am not talking detailed location, but general location. Are you in New York? Vegas? Florida? Chicago? We have no clue looking at your site. You don't need a fancy website, but it should have your location, a little about yourself, your rates, links to your reviews (once you get some) and a few more pictures. There are several "build it yourself" template type websites that escorts use. As you get more established, you can buid a better one. You can start off with a simple basic one, but right now I think yours is a little too basic. (At a minimum, add location, rates, a little intro text, and a few more pics)

Goof luck

That's great advice,especially getting vip even for a month.If you study ,you will get a sense of what it takes to be a success.
In real estate a "homes value" is determined by what a ready,willing able buyer will pay....
In this industry,value is somewhat determined by services offered(and it will directly determine the kind of client base you will have).Your beauty is of course a part of your "value".
But by getting to read the whole review you can get an idea what most guys like...setting,eye contact ,no rush,1st impression of appearance etc...
     In my humble opinion,that insight can perhaps save you a great amount of heartache .
  Wishing you the best,

I agree with the other posts, your website needs work.  Age, location, rates, what you enjoy doing - doesnt have to be sexual but should give the guys an idea about who you are, if you enjoy kissing, dinner dates, travelling, etc.

Also being new you probably need to learn how to screen.  PM me if you want my help.

Lol Naomi, kinda makes us guys looked bad huh.Thanks for being there and extending the help!!!

Thanks Naomi for adding that. I thought about putting it in my post. Actually that was my reason for mentioning the VIP so she can PM providers, although I didn't come out and mention screening per se. We probably overloaded her with info anyway. lol. She just came out asking for a definition of GFE and we are telling her to overhaul her website. :) Hopefully she does take our advice. It is all about safety and success:) I wish her well.

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