On the "Reviews" page there is a place where you can "Chat with a provider". I click there and not much happens. How do I chat with a provider?

You have to log in and launch ter messenger in the top right corner of the screen in order to do so...
I hope that helps...

There is a link on the top of the page for online chats, the few times I checked it out there were  9 or 10 people in it.

I think the providers here are busy, and would rather you filled out their web form and requested an appointment than chat it up with bored guys.

Just my thoughts, maybe you could go on it now and prove me wrong.

-- Modified on 5/11/2009 4:28:33 PM

When I check on "Chat with a provider" it shows 5 providers with a little pink icon to the left of their name. According to the messenger page it means they are on line. I went to Messenger, as Jacquelinexxx suggested and it looks like I am the only one there. If these ladies are online, where are they?

If you want to chat with a provider you have to invite them as a "pal" first. A pink icon only tells you that they are on line, not on your messenger list.

Nice idea, but not practical in real life, because providers are "providing". When I first took the plunge I tried just to talk to a few, leaving messages,(back then we had "Swing" newspaper) telling the truth about my situation. I got a voicemail box,(pay cash :~) told them I did, that it was safe, I would call back, I always started out "I'm married"...It's worked so far, and no bull is what women like, they are vulnerable,and nervous, so are you. I avoided the sophisticated, more advertised ladies because they have "regulars" (that's why no time for chat)."Attractive" providers, local with a track record has given me great relationships and they just need to confide in you and protect themselves.The sophisticated ladies are well worth it, in time.

Some of us don't spend all day in bed,So we can chat.

Whenever I can, I will launch ter chat. And I don't mind talking to bored guys. They are not BorING to me.

Love

Sexy Carolina