I'm trying to be a good newbie here -- I'm reading reviews, thoroughly checking out provider web sites, and being respectful and (hopefully) charming in my phone calls and e-mails to providers.  Even with this, there is only so much information available for someone trying to make a good first impression on a provider.  Is it proper for me to PM hobbyists that have seen someone I am planning on (or interested in) seeing to get some "inside scoop"?  By this I mean provider likes and dislikes (prefers red over white wine), dos and don'ts (she's ticklish so don't nuzzle her behind her ear or she'll knee you), things to talk about/avoid (Carolina vs. Duke), and other tips (bring her red roses and she'll melt).

Gents?

It makes me look busy at the office and cuts down on the real (annoying and difficult) work I would otherwise have to do.

is you get no reply.  Which does happen.  About 50-50 in my experience, but the chances improve if the review is very recent, like less than a week or two.  The older the review, less chance the guy checks his PM.

We are happy with Mustangs

Mustangs?  Do early year specialty models count as extras?