Hi I am newbie I had my first encounter with a provider from a know Chicago escort service who sent the girl to my residence on my request over the phone and had a great time with a very nice looking girl.

So I was looking at a few well reviewed girls here I was wondering when they say outcall does that mean an outcall just to a motel in most times or does that mean also residence?

The reason I ask I e-mailed a well reviewed provider from here working in my area about setting up an appointment for my residence. That’s all I put in my e-mail careful not put anything about rates or anything else just inquired about setting an appointment a week in advance to my residence.

I never heard back so I am thinking maybe when she says outcall it means to a motel only not a residence?

Also does a GFE  BBBJ most of the time?

TIA





-- Modified on 7/11/2011 1:31:58 AM

as when you are in a strange city on business, for example.

Many gals are much more relaxed going to a well known upscale hotel than to a person's house; and you should also be careful about inviting a stranger to your home until you have gotten to know the person well.

You MUST be respectful in all e mails to her - Always keep that in mind !!!
MOST every provider will respond to a polite e mail within a day . If she has not then send ONE more e mail. Let her know you are serious and not wasting her time. If she responds work out the screening , newbie status , and if your residence is OK with her - nothing more on this e mail.
If it gets to where you can set an appointment you can then cover the " services " offered - again be a gentleman with your wording so I would let her take the lead , and offer or ask what " services " you are wanting .
With VIP this would not be an issue as you would KNOW what services are offered.
My experience is 90% of reviewed ladies offer BBBJ - pretty standard but you must ASK first .

PS - Put yourself in her place. Would you want to meet someone for the first time on HIS turf - I can only imagine how scarry that must be for her. The more comfortable she is the better the experience will be for BOTH of you . I always offer her place on a first " date "- shows you are respectful and understanding which can go far with her.

Back on the main page, upper right corner.  As far as GFE  BBBJ most of the time? I suggest you become a VIP member so you can read the juicy details of the providers reviews. Never assume anything, when it comes to hobbying.

I am kind of nervous about going to a hotel/motel, I just feel much more conformable (much more convenient) to invite them to my residence than going to a hotel. I will only be looking at well-reviewed ladies from TER (or a well a know Chicago escort service) for my residence to set up out calls. I know inviting a stranger in your home is not the ideal thing to do, and could present a risk. But at this point, I would just prefer out calls to my residence unless you guys want to enlighten on any bad experiences you know of that have happened using well reviewed ladies. I would never use a BP provider for an out call (let alone an in call) to my residence, unless she been has been well reviewed here on TER. I am using and relying on TER reviews for my future providers for the near future, and will only use providers who offer a BBBJ so thanks for the info on BBBJ.

This site has been great source of info for me, I have enjoyed reading (some good laughs too) a lot of threads and post’s by you guys, and I been thinking about joining as a VIP.

Thanks for all the info and advice guys!


-- Modified on 7/11/2011 7:27:16 PM

if it doesn't go smoothly from the beginning, it's not meant to be.You shouldn't have to "chase" her.Just move on to someone else.  

"If she has not then send ONE more e mail"

good point. never thought of that. she might use this as a screening tool.(i.e., She thinks maybe this guy is serious and not "just looking around".Hence, the "serious inquiries only" tag in many ads.)