So finally did my first official review of this provider. Please read.  
She is great, is/was my go to girl. My hobby may have become an obsession with her. So my problem is she made a mistake I posted it along with a stunning review,Because she is absolutely amazing.  
She is now pissed that I posted that and wants me to take it down.
What should I do?  
She's a great girl and don't what to mess with her income. Granted she does have several great reviews and the one semi-negative is from a newbie member.  
What'll think

You write a review that heaps praise on her only to say she is a thief? Not understanding that part at all.

If she really stole money from you, I'm surprised you didn't put her in the "ripoff" section. If your story is true, and she didn't pay you back, why would you consider removing the review? If she paid you back, or if the whole thing was a misunderstanding, or miscommunication, then perhaps you shouldn't have posted the review, and should consider taking it down. However, a hobbyist can't simply remove his review. Once submitted it is TER's property and only they can remove it. If you really want to take it down, you need to contact admin, and ask them to remove it, giving them a compelling reason. Then it is still up to them if they want to remove it or not.

You should not pull it if TER even will let you.
The only reason you should pull it is if it is not the truth.
For what you said happens you were generous with your score or were scoring on your other experiences.
She is the one who messed with her potential income.

It may be that I'm too new to judge; ok... Fine.  I can admit that perhaps I'm green, though, I do have an opinion after having read your post and your review of your date...  

First, the review with both praise and damnation: OP is sort of saying to me, "Services and their performance were good, but leave your wallet and other valuables in the car. Then, you should be OK."  He is NOT saying, "Service and their performance were bad. Stay away. Also, she robbed me, which is another reason to stay away."  

Never had any cash stolen from a date, but I have had a few lovely ladies that I was attached to all of a sudden go loco on me for no reason I could figure out other then bio rhythms, hormones, or they were just moody. Although it is a truism that there are plenty of fishes in the sea, it is not so easy finding one that not only is easy on the eyes, but does the things the you like, the way you like them. Once you find a lady like that, it is a bummer to lose her.  

you're a donkey's ass. It's one thing to post your review, if that's what really happened and leave it at that. It's another thing to come to this board and ask for advise stating "she's pissed". Of course she's pissed.

I was reading the review, and it seems that she was your favorite but stole $380 from you. I am not disputing your story because it might be true, but how do you know that she stole $380.00 from you? Did you catch her in you Wallet or pockets? Did you give her the donation and then she left without rendering service? It seems vague to me.  

Your default setting is that the woman is honest and the guy is lying.

I question his motive to write about it on the forum. I read all kinds of reviews about getting ripped off & believe them. But they never show up like this, in a newbie forum asking for opinions. If I truly got ripped off, I wouldn't give a shit what anyone else else thought.

Its a true story.
Well she was my regular girl, and then that happened.
Never been too involved posting on TER until that happened.  
I guess I got the bug and got hooked on her and no one else compared. So I didn't need to post on TER.
Well I have learned.
I'm a newbie
No payback yet she talks that she will. That was not a misunderstanding.
You should have seen my face as her friend drove away.
Time I guess will tell what happens. Been a freaking movie script coning her to see me. Had to Jason Bourne her, with the throw away phone

He asked for advice not to be called cheap and a liar.

Yes very true. She was pulling on my heart strings yesterday.
I know I know
Grow a fucking pair.
I have

I will respond shortly to all these questions

So I typed a damn long response. And was logged off. Fuck
Next time copy and paste.
I will respond with the whole story.
This time on a computer not a tablet.
Stand by.
Newbie

see story  
that was not a false accusation. She knows what she did, we had sex yesterday and i gave her 100.00 more
can you say sucker.

donkey ass? maybe a sucker
TER customer service said to post it on here, on the newbie forum  
I know she's pissed she told me after and during we had sex yesterday
Im pissed also
No loan Im not a bank
no upfront we were going to do it that day
10 or more times and she did steal it  
oh I'm not vindictive just maybe head over heals for her, my fault yes.

thanks

that was TER that said I should ask on the newbie forum?
Ill post that email

thanks, need to move on...

ahhh yes ill check the atlanta board.

see full story

Ok here we go one more time.
i started seeing Whitney back in January. I have seen other TER members but mostly back page.  
I started a membership prior to this incident because I thought I better start posting to see other term providers. bp was getting a little weird and scary. the po po and all.
Whitney and i started of the first time a hh visit. I was amazed the first time. she was a little out of my price range for a full hr. but at a hh it was normal price for me. I was hooked. She asked if i was on TER review at that time , I was not so there was a interview process. All good. As my review stated the sex was great. over time it was a gfe experience. I was still being others but as I became a regular with her her prices came down for me. By that time the other girls did not compare, my needs of giving oral, fingering, seeing her pleased, eye contact, and full tongue kissing was what got me hooked. Other girls did not compare. I was seeing her at some times twice a week. At that point i was a regular and at 160-200 hr. with feeling like the only one. I just did not find anyone to compare. SO all this to lead into last week.
we really felt comforable together, at least I did. WE ended up a full GFE experience. that she only does with one other client. I was told I was getting it for less of a rate because we had something but i would need to tip once and a while or at least do the 240 hr occasional. Which we agreed upon 240 then 140 each session.
i was happy , and I think she was?
So last week went do that we would meet she was back in a hotel from where we had usually met which was at her private residence. All ok normal, she had her roommate there saw her in the car, she said she needed to get cash on her debit card to pay for the hotel, via price line. did that priceline didn't work she needed to put more money on her card so we then went to her bank I gave her my donation and she deposited it. Yeah a bone head move, def. for someone new but i kew her. that was not uncommon.  
so we go back to the hotel she need to give her id to the hotel room person and then she will call me. Next thing I know her room mate drives away. I didn't see her in the car so I didn't think anything of it. after a half hour I knew i was scammed. may calls and texts with no response that night. not until the next morning is when she texted me. her side.
longer story pretty much her roommate set her up and her friends tried to get them arrested. yada yada yada , a tall story.
whatever I am pissed i am out 380.00 and for a person that i felt i could trust and had a relationship with.

I've said the guys here are their own worst enemy and this just is another example. Who knows if she stole the money? He thinks she did. She knows if she stole it or not, but it's not the most intelligent thing to infer based on limited information and draw the "predictable" conclusion that the provider is right and the guy is not. It's not like this provider has a bunch of 10/10 reviews so she wouldn't possibly do anything like steal. The guy is new and I read this as, her service is good- does stealing belong in one of her reviews? One thing is certain, guys have to be out of their mind to pass any negative information to their fellow enthusiasts because he will be called a liar, douchebag, ass, or whatever. The WKing on here has reached  a ridiculous level.  I expect some providers to chime in, but for another guy to use that "default" stance of, the provider is always right! is just fucking stupid and it shows a true lack of balls. And you wonder why all the reviews start to sound the same! Take a guess. I read a few of her reviews and one thing that I did see was that she's broke a lot. One review said the guy had to front her gas money before the session. Does that mean she stole? No, but people who are broke all the time do dumb things.  

I'll save you some time JD. She's going to say she has never stole anything ... I don't see any great reviews for her either, but he's new and he obviously likes her. He seems very conflicted about telling the community or just giving her a pass and saying nothing. He would know that no good deed goes unpunished here in TERLand if he wasn't new. I don't try to make sense of the logic (or lack of) on here. I just pretend that I'm a character in a Kafka novel and it all makes sense.  
 

Yes, I would pull the ad. TER reviews are meant for a reference for guys seeking P4P experiences. If she did that on your first or second experience, it would be worth reporting. I don't see a danger in new clients getting "ripped off" if they are just seeking the normal services she advertises.

Sounds like dude got turned out by this provider and he became obsessed. She rejected him and he got vindictive and decided to hurt her business. I'm just saying...

Yeah, she has been short on cash. Will not say why. But that does cause a person do to dumb things. She has some stressful times coming up.
I wish her the best.

Yeah don't totally agree with on that. Getting ripped off after you see someone for that many times. Just does seem right. I would like the new guy would get ripped.
I would never say the words bbfs,  
Seeking a girlfriend on the side, not here, ok.strictly hobbist

As long as you are telling the truth about her stealing from you, and I have no reason to doubt you, then yes you should absolutely warn the community that they have a thief in their midst. That is exactly what this site was designed for.  

Ahh, maybe I was a good client that came offen and paid. If she didn't want to see me, it's called communication. If she really rejected me why would she still give me another session.
Here's that vindictive attitude getting thrown out there.  
I think posted an honest review is not vindictive, yes I probably could have been clearer on what all happened, give me a break it was my first review.
If I wanted to be vindictive, I could have done much worse. But that's not me.

Wow. What a situation.  

You are looking for validation and not advice. I'm not sure how you could have done worse. You called her a thief and told all here, she provides BBFS to at least 2 mongers (lol). I'll stand by my opening statement.

-- Modified on 3/19/2016 1:37:52 PM

I guess I am a true newbie  
I never said bbfs  
I said a true girlfriend experience.  
She always made me wear a jimmy.
I guess I am a little nyeve when it comes to this game.

Thanks for the advice. Lots of newbie mistakes. People thinking I said  bbfs. Freaking A.  
Too crazy.  
Should have just stayed home that day.

BBFS?

There is also a RIP-OFF button that you can apply when reviewing a scam as such. Providers who steal should be made aware of for others to stay away. Her income will suffer much more than the 380 stolen.

From reading the response that you put here, I am not sure if TER would change it. I think that if it is accurate account of what happened, they might tell you that you can not remove the review. You might have to wait 3 months after the review had posted to do another review to replace it.

That you misrepresented the fact, which you did, and ask them to delete it, they probably will. Then you can submit a more accurate description of your experiences with her.

This is why ter exists. It is a forum to keep hobbyist's safe from a non regulated industry and if you follow the proven results from information provided here,  the odds are you should be stress free.  

It will replace your other post.

Thanks man! I just hope that he have fun in the hobby and be safe in it.

Your earlier post is correct. If they take down the review at his request (big if there) then he can submit another, but for a new review to replace an existing review, 3 months have to pass.  

Or, perhaps that was prior to them implementing the 90 day rule.

Yeah that makes sense. I've seen people infer to the point of insanity on here, but this one takes it to a whole new level ... Just saying, you're fucking nuts.  

Don't worry if it's not there they will make it up and add it because they think TER is like faceBook. What kills me is its other guys fucking over other guys as if they will get a freebie someday.  
 

Thank your for the advice.  
I'm will take it. Just got home from work, if it wasn't dead tired in would type an update.
I'm need to be done with her.
Way to much drama and wasting of my time.

Thanks!

Ha
You got that right!
Help me Jesus!

Thanks
Appreciate the help