Good Morning Everyone,

I am new to TER, and loving it.. Already put up a few reviews in NY.. I found an attractive provider for my trip out to LV, but looks like there is a screening form that is mandatory.  Is this normal?  How much information is to much?  I dont know how comfortable I feel putting my name out there

them.  If you don't want to share your personal info with a number of providers, consider joining one or more of the verification sites.  The big 3 are Date-Check, Preferred411, and RoomService2000.  RS2K is most popular in the midwest.  On P411, the staff there will work with you to verify you.  What the providers want to know is, one, that you are not LE, and two, that you are safe for them to spend time with, primarily.  

You could also ask some of the gals you have already visited to give you a reference to see other providers.  Screening methods vary from provider to provider, but no one is forcing you to give up more than you are comfortable with.  BTW, P411 allows providers to indicate on their profiles if they are newbie friendly, which means lighter screening.

Swim

Very few providers will refuse to see you if you don't use the form, most only want to know that they will be safe with you. Read her website for tips on contacting her. I normally contact someone new through P411 and have only had a problem with that once, we ended up not meeting because she wanted more personal info than I was willing to provide. Remember once you give out your information you can never get it back.

...fill them out. I e-mail them. As for the info requested by the form it is likely what she would ask regardless of the method. E-mail her the info instead of doing the form.

I thought it would be much worse than it was.  Just give details about your situation and be honest and I think they will work with you.  I don't really wanna write reviews, but I feel like that makes screening easier for some of the ladies.  Would some ladies that usually require 2 references be willing to see you with only 1 reference if I ask them really nicely?  Or would that just annoy them?  I'm thinking of asking one if she would see me if we met in public first

If you make a good first impression you are much more likely to have her work with you to get that first date. Some ladies like to read your reviews to get a sense of what you like and if she thinks she will be a good fit for you. You don't need hundreds but having a few reviews gives you a little more credibility when you are new. Just remember that everything is YMMV.

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