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Hey all,  

Pretty new to this site and would love some advice. I've set up a meeting with a provider for tomorrow through email. Didn't mention anything incriminating and she asked for a donation of 350. I told her that this is my first time so I didn't have any references but she didn't seem to mind. Gave her some general information about myself and she confirmed the appointment. Just told me to call the day of to reconfirm. She is older so I I mentioned that I'm in my 20's and she said that is young but wouldn't mind if I was a gentleman. Does this strike as a red flag for some of you? Barely screened me. She has multiple reviews that  average to 7.5 but was last reviewed in December 2015. Does anyone think this can be LE? Its an incall to her apartment in Westchester. Maybe I'm just getting paranoid since this is my first time.

Is she advertising on a reputable website?

Is she a reviewed provider on TER?

Does her phone # and email on TER match her ad?

Has she been reviewed recently?
(Recently is relative, I've seen providers go almost a year between reviews...12/2015 throws no red flags for me)

If all of those are yes,vrelax and go have a good time!

mikemiggs314 reads

You can also just tell us who it is and I'm sure someone will be able to verify her and ease your concerns. Lots of hobbyists read these boards, if she's legit someone will have seen her.

He PM'd me her info so I took a look for him...she's someone I would not hesitate to go see and that's what I told him...

I would follow her instructions, and my instincts.  The one thing you may need to be concerned about is her mentioning donations in specific terms - this should have been apparent on her website, and her profile here, and referred to non-specifically.  If she doesn't have several pages of solid reviews, this can be a red flag.  If she does, most likely you are safe.

One other thing...call and speak to her on the phone beforehand to get an idea of what's she's like.

Paranoia is par for the course here on occasion. If red flags go off, don't ignore them. Usually your initial gut instinct is spot on.  

Safety always comes first. Always.

Ggxo

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