Anyone had the pleasure of her acquaintence?

Don't know about Nikki, but I understand Kama Sutra is a little hot right now - complaints of noise from neighbors resulting in a visit by LE (no bust).  Be careful.  Once LE has the address, it's only a matter of time.

guys bellowing like water buffolos, cranking the music too loud, morons arriving drunk leaning on the buzzer, assorted brainless antisocial behavior... no wonder its a high stress job, people have to understand there is a certain etiquette involved, as in showing some awareness of the surroundings.

Upon a visit there, I must state, it was the girls cackly in the lower level that was all the noise. Sounded like there were 30 hens in the house.

No noise from the guys, just the girls.

A word of advise to KS, have the girls quiet downand the neighbors will not complain, they were playing music and smoking a cloud.

Large vols of cig smoke travel upstairs to other apts and they wonder what is going on as well as the stereo playing.

Besides its disturbing to the client in the room all that noise.

That's the classic success curve. At first a select number of discreet clients, then the word is out, the phone rings nonstop, people coming and going at all hours and, yeah, the cig smoke is unreal in these places. This is about to become a major "tell" about where you might have been as no other place in town is so ripe with tar and nicotine, not even bars anymore, so there goes that excuse out the window.

thanks i have a provider there I see on the side (kinda dte) but she is out of town...

I've seen this topic come up before, and I'm always looking for a new perspective. What's that like for you? It was really bizarre for me...

Have you given up the hobby? If not, do you still go to KS and pick someone else? One of her friends?

If you have given up the hobby, does she believe you?  Does KS miss you, think you are paying her on the side and missing their cut?

I'm sure there are more questions, let me know if you want to start a new "dating providers" thread...

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Been there. Found it to be confusing. In one context you have sex like people normally do when you're into a relationship and on the othr hand you're trying to figure out if you want to have a relationship. So you keep running these scenarios like should we only have sex in a business way to keep the boundaries clear but do regular date stuff ? My most recent pro gf was really sweet but had a paranoid streak about a mile wide that I wasn't aware of when were were in the paid romance mode.

I have done it as well.  At first it was not that difficult, but when we got closer I started to feel strange when we had sex...like was I just another client?  Surprisingly, she was more jealous than me..I think because she met me the way she did, she thought I would be out doing the same thing with others.  As strange as it may sound, I wasn't jealous of her, because I knew exactly what she was doing!  Still its very strange..

How did you guys go about asking the provider out? There have been some that I've thought about, but always felt weird about it.