just finished reading the tinsley thread and i must say that i am very amused by this....i do believe this is a valuable thread because it brings up a topic that is not formally discussed in these open forums...when a provider is mistreated by a hobbyist or potential hobbyist, they have the ability to blacklist this person...we have the same ability to share a negative experience when seeing a provider but we do not have the place to list the NCNS...it is a real buzz kill when you are waiting on a particular corner at a designated time and not being able to make contact with your appointment...you start to feel like a real jackass after the 2nd call and yet you will wait 5 more minutes to make the final call and then ultimately walk away unfulfilled...not only have you wasted your time but you will usually be unable to refill your dance card...i believe from the reviews of many of my reputable writers on this site that tinsley is/was an excellent provider but i also believe that she probably lacked the grace to handle cancelling an appointment... she is/was a perpetual poster on these boards so i am surprised that all this negativity only surfaced now...i guess that the hurt parties were still hoping to see that hottie and did not want to end up on her shitlist....throwing anonymous barbs is very weak...you should have informed the public much earlier

They are afraid of getting shouted down by the ever present white knights or getting put on a black list. There are quite a few providers that many white knights rave about that are NCNS queens. These girls are usually self centered  and self absorbed bitches or have substance problems, or both.

The provider you mentioned Tinsley is a serial NCNS queen.

Guys ARE blacklisted on that site every day for NCNS's. They are put on it for other lesser infractions too. Where have you been?

you have the Hobbiest only board, as well you have the ability to post about it open forum for the area you are in.

It does suck, NCNS is never fun on either side hun.  Many reputable ladies would never dream of NCNS, it is ususlly the young or inexperienced ladies who are more apt though not always.

My thoughts are that this is more rampid with BP and Eros ladies who try to keep their schedules as busy as possible.  Also I think there might be a increase with the lower the rate on those sites.  A better deal comes along so they ignore you, or a regular calls so she would rather see him, the last guy is going long sooo...
None of those are good reasons, and you will get that from the seedy types.   There are also the chicks who drink way to much, leave their cell in the cab, run out of battery on the cell and many like that.  Some are honest mistakes, many are just excuses.  

However, I encourage you to speak up...  Post about it, trust me you will find out real quick if she has a history of it, and wala you just made a searchable thread!

BTW, NCNS doesn't get you put on to many black lists and certainly not the NBL.  NBL is reserved for those not paying for a session, stealing from a provider, hitting her, forcing BBFS on her, making her take greek when it is not offered tearing her up, those so rough that they leave us bruised and damaged.   Only a few use it for lesser things.

GL and take care

Given this post, I would advise you not suggest that other posters use spellcheck. Your style is no different. Why be abrasive when you present a valid perspective? I anticipate your response will be in keeping with your earlier posts, but I thought I would try. In any event, good luck and be safe.