Will most providers allow personal photography or will it be difficult to find one? Mostly ass shots in various outfits with toys, touching with hands possibly but that's about it.  I imagine a decent amount of girls would enjoy such an mellow session

Like the subject says. Some providers will be ok with it,  other providers might not want to due to privacy reasons.

Best  way to find out is to ask!

 XOXO
 Val

You never know until you ask. So muster up some chutzpah and ask.  

If you ask kindly, the worst that could happen is that she'll say no, but the best thing that could happen is that she says yes and is totally into it, gets off doing the modeling thing and is down for playing with toys as she's modeling.  

Ask nicely. Good luck.  

nycad