I'd think that would be a good way to find other playmates that are down to enjoy you and your GF. And if you both find a lady that you like in a swing club environment, I don't think it's the kind of thing where you need to pay that gal to have some playtime with you and your GF.
Just a thought.
nycad
Posted By: managementco
First I'd like to say that I have been a member and hobbyist of TER for over 6 years. I deactivated my old account and started this new one just a month or two ago which makes me look to be a novice..I am not.
Two years ago I started a relationship with a 27yr old woman (I'm 56). Health and shape wise we are equals. I stepped away from the "hobby" because I had found my Nirvana...tall..Blond..green and the sweetest thing in the world. Of course her family won't talk to me

A bond of our attraction is that she shares many of my interest..including beautiful young women. The past couple of years have been nothing less that fucking fantastic. We have shared our bed with a wide array of women..some better than others and it's been heaven. Last year we hit a little dry spell in finding someone we liked enough to share our bed with but remember...Men (me) are pigs...so to alleviate the dry spell I brought in a professional. When she found out I paid she went ballistic and it's not worth going into all the reasons for argument and disagreement here. Suffice to say that she asked me NEVER to pay a woman that she was intimate with again.
Due to my profession I schedule "play time" very carefully. When we do play besides sharing our bed with a woman we have many other indulgences that are better left to keeping at bay in spurts and only should be visited in increments of 6-8 weeks at the most....done so to insure good health. I have always been a believer of everything in moderation.
So here I sit...in my office at 8:24 EST delaying my trip home because I was given the less that good news less than an hour ago that our choice of company for this evening (and her back-up..yes we learned to do that to avoid disappointment) both backed out last minute due to the fear of this impending weather situation that will be rolling through New York in the next few hours. I offered to send cars but to no avail. I've taken tomorrow off as well as Friday morning to devote myself to our planned pleasure which has just been blown away by a storm. She is disappointed but has accepted the circumstances and has changed her mind set to accept the disappointment.
Gentlemen...& Ladies I made a promise to never bring anyone into our bed that visited for anything less than the sheer enjoyment of our mutual debauchery BUT I sit her growing horns. With visions of what I have become accustomed to during these sexcapades and I FUCKING PISSED.
So If there is a young woman that reads this message board and wants to make some exceptional new friends...have a wild night with all care abandoned but will accept my money and work with me so as not to expose our little rouse. Please reach out.