for safety a lot of providers require references but what the hell is the point on asking for a reference if the provider lies about the client! Last night I opt to see a client from Brunswick nj from Manhattan ny! (fyi Im not from here) he gave me two out of state providers listed on eros! I sent my assistant to contact the women! (approved) gave the man gratitude saying he is a great guy approved the address etc etc! etc etc! I ordered a (260 round trip) taxi for my hour ride to Brunswick NJ. a min away from the client He requested to pay me via paypal instead of cash! then explaining a problem with his card so forth and so on! come to find out he was THE SAME man via email requesting a paypal payment to come visit me at my incall  in east Manhattan who went by a totally different name and age!

not only did i spend 260 to catch a taxi to east bubble F***!

My appointment book was closed for the night!

providers why give out fake references? theirs no way in hell these ladies dated this man! Why put others at risk! do onto other what you want done to you!

until then ill be in search of an AWESOME OMELETTE .....

....to other providers (to always have good references on hand) and then go around being assholes to several other providers or he could've use different info altogether with them. 2 different providers giving fake references against you to like "show you a lesson" just sounds strange. Maybe i'm trying to be an optimist some ladies can't be so bitchy as to give false ref's to put another woman in danger.  Also if he can't send a despot via greendot moneypark I wouldn't accept the appt (no paypal). Sorry this happened to you. smh

i talked about this with my best friend who is no longer a provider but she told me about a similar situation with another hobbyist down in Atlanta! I shouldve requested a moneypak but like an idiot i didnt ill never do it again!

Here is my addy:

[email protected]

You handled it nicely, compared to my crazy ass.. who waste peoples time like that? Honestly.

No wonder his TER account was deleted, not because of no divorce story he gives lol.

Sorry this happened to you, but in the end, all you know for sure is that he fucked you out of a $260 cab ride and that you got no money because of "payment issues."

Sucks in every way, but don't draw the potentially incorrect conclusion that the providers KNEW he was problematic.

All you know is that he contacted you twice, under different names and aliases and emails.  That sucks, but that doesn't necessarily mean the other providers were in cahoots.

I know exactly who this guy is, if he was going by the same number a simple google of his number pulls up 2 other reports where ladies complain of him doing the same thing.You can't blame the providers for providing a reference for a client who was an excellent safe client with them, sometimes guys just decide to show their ass. This guy is going to do this to the wrong provider one day.....that's all I'm going to say.

i never knew a (providers board existed) FYI EOM!

It was over a year after I'd met him, but on the few occasions we met there were no issues then I saw several blacklists with his name saying he'd gone psycho and been very mean to the girls.

Good luck with the omelette!

Anna Faire xxx

It's interesting to see this post, as  an honest man I guess I just assumed everyone that wasn't honest got screened out some how. Gives me more appreciation for the shennanigans you ladies endure. For the record, French Roast makes an awesome omelette, It's more of a minimalist omelette, but sometimes the simplest things are the best.

I am so sorry this happened to you but thank you for posting it on here. I've been trying to gain access to the provider board to no avail so I appreciate this.

I always fear that a good reference will go bad. I have been in a situation where I approved a reference for a provider who I knew personally and she was wildly disappointed in the experience. Apparently, the guy, who was a delight with me, was talking about me to my girl the whole time. All nice things, but that's so awkward! There was certainly no danger and she didn't get ripped off or anything, but she still decided never to see him again. I guess YMMV goes both ways...

On the other hand, karma is a bitch and hopefully the guy will get his soon.

Lucky for me my assistant caught it, and told me not to schedule, as he is blacklisted all over the place!  Look out ladies, he talks the good talk!

So sorry to hear this happened to you!  We should go put a flaming bag of dog shit on his doorstep!

Regards,

AAT