This could be viewed to be in poor taste but I see it as pragmatic.

I have to give a certain amount every quarter to charity. Last year,  a provider who runs a nonprofit organization suggested a give  a "donation" through her charity. It was mutually beneficial- obviously fun for me anyway.

Pls don't take this the wrong way. I'll still give to someone anyway... there is always a battered shelter or red cross or some home building in third world country stuff... but I thought I'd ask in case this is something anyone does. PM me, so no one needs to know what the deal is.

it's for the "children."