I'm a P411 member, which seems to work very well in my hometown.  The list is very inclusive.  I just got a second home here in the Big Apple, however, and expect that I'll be playing quite a bit here in my free time.  Is there a verification site that providers up this way prefer or that you gents use most?  Thanks in advance.

I love being contacted by P411 members, and the site is very user friendly.

I don't know about p411. Almost no providers in NYC ask for clients to be p411 confirmed, and the ones that do don't usually require it. Traveling providers visiting NYC often have to drop that requirement because so few of us in this city are members. In my travels to other cities, however, I've visiting cities where the majority of higher-end providers will ONLY see clients who are p411 registered.

I understand why Flora (or any other provider) would gladly accept p411 confirmations, but I think it would be incorrect to suggest that it is a standard practice in NYC.

Moreover, I'd rather not join yet another costly service to support my mongering.

Datecheck is what most new york men have memberships to if they did choose to join a verification site. When I have NYC men book me, if they are on a verification site, they usually mentione datecheck. However, since there are many men who travel to NYC, most providers will also be familiar with the other verification sites, so if you are listed on any of them, most of us will easily find your ID there and references. Many of us are members there and since we value our safety, we gladly join those sites and welcome any members verified there. For men who prefer to not be on a verification site, we have other ways of screening. But being a member of P411 would be gladly welcomed by me and most providers. I cant really think of anyone who would turn away a P411 member.