So I'm a relatively young guy who's new the hobby. Actually I just popped that cherry recently but that was while travelling in another city. Almost totally new to the NYC scene, but I've been pretty active scouring the review listings and these discussion boards so I do have a short lineup of who I want to check out.

That said, my birthday is coming up towards the end of the year and I was considering 'treating myself' to something decadent and out of my normal expectations (both in quality and price) in the hobby experience. It seems the hobby can be great for fantasies, but I can't figure out how to get the most bang for my buck so to speak. As I don't have an ATF and haven't really been around much in NYC yet, am I just throwing the dice if I want to do an overnight or a two-provider situation where I'm not sure the chemistry/comfort is there? I'm a guy where it's important that I'm relaxed and not nervous around the provider, BTW.

So I was thinking either: overnight, threesome, or just going way over my normal price range and booking an actual pornstar who's touring or picking a premium-priced provider that I'd never imagine getting under more normal circumstances. The one provider I *have* seen so far has her own suggestions and I'm leaning towards that but I thought I'd throw this question to this helpful board in hopes that I get a great tip or two. All this comes with a hefty financial commitment and I'd want to make sure I have a greeeeeeat time (or three). If any of you guys (or girls!) have advice or recommendations or even warnings, I'm all ears.