If you go to see a provider and she is NOT what you expected? Let me explain....

Most providers do not show their face in their pictures, rightfully so.....and ofcourse there is the "hide behind the door and let you in" routine, so you walk in hoping to see a beauty and it turns out she is not what you expected or there is no instant attraction.....

What is the best way to walk away from it peacefully, without hurting the providers ego??

I am sure we all at some point pulled of the "I left my wallet in my car" or "I will be right back" excuse. But then the provider calls you, you dont pick up, you get a text msg saying you are an AH etc..

Is there a nicer way to walk away without causing any hate? Providers and hobbyist feel free to respond.

OMG- You look just like my daughter (or if you're too young to have a grown daughter-OMG-You look just like my sister) and I'm sorry, but I just can't stay.

Excellent idea....spare any bad feelings

S,

You post a ton and I respect your enthusiasm and support to the board, but please move on to another phrase.

Nothing but love,

J

If you read my post it was mildly critical, but somewhat complimentary and slightly endearing.

I have never read a remotely positive, informative or funny post from you. You obviously hate everything and everyone here.

If you hate this place so much why do you come here?

J

Does this self loathing passive aggressive thing carry over to your gay bath house visits?

Are you mean to all the boys when you get there?

No of course not because you courage is attached to that sticky keyboard you are typing on.

J

If a girl keeps her face hidden, then there's no way of finding out what she looks like, and you can't really claim bait/switch if the pics are really of her.

I saw a provider in Miami who was top rated and she used her own pics, but her face was blurred.  And even though she was mostly 9s and 10s in apperance, her face was hardly that...maybe a 6 at best.

But that's not on her.  That's on me.  She didn't misrepresent herself.  I just did my research and chose poorly.

I think in this situation, you go through with it.  Or you offer to pay her for her time.  But even that's a shitty thing to do, because if she drove out through traffic to see you and expected to get her donation, that's just terrible.  Imagine if you drove out an hour in traffic to see a girl, and she said..."Um, you're not who I thought you were, so I'll give you a shorter session for less time."  Most hobbyists would flip out, and rightfully so.

Be honest, but be a man.  If you fucked up, man up and pay for the session and do it.

Going off sexxyg's advice, how about "you look just like my ex-wife"