i wasted some time and money on arrangement finders and ashleymadison   what a waste of time.  maybe a provider can offer a monthly deal for 5 hrs a month or something like that?

encounters and  be willing to donate as one lump sum  
 I think there be a lot of women who would be willing to do it  
Myself I rather prefer such regular  and safe dates  to those whom I see first time fro big  roses.. never know ... who is who and what it  will be ....
I think you should not have any problems if you respect her  desire for protected and  such .

My favorite package is one that involves meeting once a week for dinner & some intimacy afterwards.  As Serafima suggested, any gentleman who was willing to commit in advance to multiple visits and provide payment upfront as a lump sum could surely receive a special rate for these regular dinner dates.  One of the few circumstances where my rates are negotiable.  Of course you have to trust that I will follow through on future dates.  But I definitely do.  And that's part of what makes the sugar daddy / sugar baby thing special, no?  There is an added level of trust with the regularity of intimacy.

I personally have friends who see me once a week since well the beginning . I know for sure on that day at that time I see my friend / friends whom I adore btw ..
We go for massages , lunch , a show sometimes , and then we play every week 6 yrs running .  
IDK what kind of frequency your looking for or for what duration of time you are seeking but I can tell you this no matter how much I adore him or them it takes my day , a day I could be otherwise seeing clients . So if he offered me 500 a month to give up 25 percent of my work week each week 25 percent of my ability to work each month I would have to pass . Are you looking for once a month , once a week once a day ? IDk it isn't clear from your post .  

 I understand and appreciate your knowing your budget and what you are comfortable with that is great but I think you have to be very clear as to what exactly you are looking for . Sugar babies generally get more than 500 a monthi am thinking more like 2000 a month in most cases as a start . I do think however if you find a newer girl who does not have a ton of regulars lined up for her every month or week yet you may find someone who finds your offer very appealing . For me I have to make a certain amount of money a month to support myself much like yourself . My budget is important as well . So for me giving up 25 percent of my ability to make money mon- fri well it would be very very difficult pill to swallow .Have a great weekend and all the best of luck to you , kendall lynn

I was thinking along the lines of 1k to 1.5k per month for a weekly visit depending on the girl.  The whole point as stated above is that its an arrangement that we both are happy with.

I have been interested in knowing a similar thing from ladies and gents here but have been reluctant to ask, not knowing what ladies would say
(Kudos to ANL for asking! And thx for the input so far!)

I've done the SD/SB thing through "SD for u " in the early 2000s and I started an account on seeking arrangements (SA) because I heard its the current industry leader (literally yesterday so nothing yet). However, based on my previous experience, I tend to think the quality will be highly variable on SA, but you would getting more amateurs (like the fishing on the old Cl and getting lucky on BP). Personally, i would rather do an arrangement with someone i've connected with sexually than a nervous amateur/ college girl on the fence about the immorality and i agree its all about having clear expectations from the outset. Based on the old rates and ranges of stipends in SA, I tend to think that 1-1.5k/month for a weekly arrangement is the reasonable start to negotiate from. Hopefully, you have a little wiggle room for that exceptional lady.

ANL, I have to ask as to what you're looking for in this. Is it a better deal or more intimacy with provider level quality? It doesn't look like you are looking for exclusivity here and beck-and-call convenience at the arrangement and rate u suggested...

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Looking for a consistently good experience not the hit or miss trying diff providers or dealing with amateurs who as you said can be just a waste of time.

From 3000 with presents and some social activities.  
You do know well already and yourself how hard to meet woman who will be an answer on all your needs and expectations not just In looks. And you are sooo correct about sugar daddies places those full of women from back page and men who do belive 500 all night is right thing  
Have you been on Alan sugard daddy parties in new york and nj? I went there just to dance because about same age people not as dance club with 20 old but people of all ages and men and women and what I saw there all back page girls dressed sooo strange as well as some real life girls who are soooo uptight and obviuosly not aware of what they are expected to be as well as men whom I never take and as a client. I mean of too old or too young or too many pounds or just wrong character standing there and selling himself high as sd for 500 and think women need him or one only one play boy whom actually I and danced always but this one comes to dance only is handsome as he is escort himself and he takes women to his place just on his look so. Soooo do not look as playboy ? Better is be 3000 a month no more then yes 5. 6 times and you yet has to be nice as you know there are clients who donate such for eve so so so you have to be real deal for woman love you ways you want it sorry for sharing all that but I do know about sd sb and bp and cl and such. What else I can t believe but here is my russian understanding of life _- how come nice man can not find nice sexy woman who does need money and not relationship in real life? Who be sexy and skilled and not a pro ? I guess all sexy women here are in pro area .mmmm I become now one as a pro ... Is it good or bad still am confused and giving to my men as to lovers always I guess it is why I am always 10

If you're trying to spend only 1K-1.5K per month to meet every week than all you will end up with is amateurs.  Why not just see a lady who charges 350 or 400 per hour once a week, then?  Most SB's I know OUTSIDE NYC won't accept less than 2K/month and NYC is more expensive than most places.  You could find providers who would be amenable to offering you a deal for a regular thing, but IMO you're going to have a hard time in that price range.

From my experience, most "Sugar Daddies" online were looking for a relationship with no allowance, wanted too much for too little (spend the whole day with you for $100? Ok, I'm that desperate), were overly sleazy perverts, etc.

First off, get off AM/AF. Those sites are crap. At least go on SeekingArrangement or SugarDaddie. AM especially is penis picture central and you will most likely not find a sexy co-ed in a sea full of bored middle-aged housewives.

Second, when you speak to a girl, be charming and not creepy. A big peeve for me were guys talking about themselves nonstop and what they want to do sexually. Hey I just met you, but this is crazy, but you talking about your penis nonstop is really creepy, so stop it maybe~ Let things progress at least somewhat where the girl isn't sketched out.

Third, prove yourself. Guys that talk the talk but are full of shit is a common occurrence on sugar daddy sites. The last sugar daddy date I was on the guy promised to "spoil me" and a 3k-5k allowance, so I showed up in Louboutins, a sexy dress, and a LV bag. In short, he wanted me to spend the whole day with him for $300 or "maybe more, like $500ish", spend the night, and was kinda pushy about it. Ugh.

In short, if you want a 10 that looks like Kate Upton, be prepared to pay for that 10. Most really hot sugar babies won't accept anything unless it's at least $3k/monthly.

Anywho, sorry for the ramble, I woke up way too early. Feel free to message me if you have any other questions.

it is NOT about how you TREAT HER  
 it is ABOUT HOW YOU TREAT YOURSELF  
 YOURSELF  
 what kind money you able spend ON YOUR OWN  pleasure  and  kinda caliber  IS YOUR   companion .. again as they say - psychologist    
 who  does not care about himself herself  can not care  about others - Treat yourself right ways love yourself on 3000 a month  then woman would love you too woman do not love those  who do not love HIMSELF
 not blame women that they are gold diggers ..
 no  we are love diggers ... YOU LOVE YOURSELF GIVING ALL THE BEST TO YOURSELF we be there around with you The best women those  who knows how to love not those who have mess in head about moral immoral things and   spoiling  the fun with church like  life's outlooks  and it is why Jewish and Russians are the best  
 fist - sexuality is not a dirty thing  in judaism  
 other ones just do not have any religion in head to start with  so no  any feel of immorality  from  ha ah a dirty sex for money  
 so there a  lot of  women  who be your SB should you treat YOURSELF with generosity taken the best by the way .. not lining them up ..
but may be inviting  for dinners?? what kind SD can nto afford few dinners with few  women ???  to choose ??
 
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