Ask questions to a provider before our meet as to why her reviews were negative?? Is asking the truth really such a crime? I feel that would remove all doubts(if any) and make the hobbyist more confident in his choice, or am I wrong here?

The story: I asked a well known provider why some of her reviews were negative, I was/am very interested in seeing her, but just wanted to be sure so there are no surprises, being burnt in the past with high expectations and all. I tried to be extremely respectful and not offensive, but instead she decided that it would be better not to see me, soooo you are not supposed to ask questions if in doubt? Don't providers verify us? And what if I said the hobbyists who reviewed her told me NOT to visit her because she isn't all that, meanwhile they gave her 9/10's?? When questioned, either I got no response or some said "its the way of the game"? Without throwing anyone under the bus, I am just curious WTF is the truth!

Am I over thinking this? or "It is the way of the game"? And wouldn't a provider want a hobbyist to feel confident in making the "date"?

Dude had a serious drinking problem I came to find out and that was one definitely I should've turned around (more tipsy than he let on).   But at the same time agreed checking the reviewer's history and how he reads in his other reviews is a good START.

I just can specifically break down each one..
end of the day theres two sides & not everyone is going to click. Im not jumping through hoops to remove bad reviews because i understand im not acting or putting on a role to like you, if we do not mesh, a bad review could come about, i just take it and continue on.. i have more happy with me then unhappy and the ones who do take the jump to see me usually ends up mentioning and laughing at them.

For a little  while it seemed I was collecting a small stream of a-holes (well majority are nice but the d-bags at one point were the ones doing the reviewing) but before those the reviews were fine & dandy and I had a few asked what was up with the recent ones to which I explained away and they saw me and had a great time as usual (and didn't see what the previous asshats were talking about and said so).  I don't see the problem with asking what's up that review or reviews x,y and z.....I've learned my lesson to grill guys I thought were harsh scorers trying to see me and they explained themselves also. If you have nothing to hide what's the problem ya' know?

Exactly .. Bravo Sexenarian.. DO NOT DO and be safe
as we say in Russia
 who does  not takes risks those  does not drink Champagne ever

it is ... ha ha  measure of the risks formula for TER



I afraid for most men it is about money  to spend - it is  why it is good idea invite her on dinner with dinner  appreciated as envelope which  hen be applied toward bliss in the room -  if she is really as on reviews.. then do you now what is  milage can vary .. or beauty  is ..  how it in english in eyes of beholder ?? ..
You can relay on  reviews to  the certain point ....

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9 times out of 10 it's because the hobbiest didn't read the girls profile and get her stats correct, booked the appt. and was unhappy as she wasn't his type but chose to stay and write a crap review. In addition the lady doesn't get to explain herself as to why certain things transpired which is why the hobbiest really needs to look at the review 'catalogue'.
That being said I can understand how this is a dicey thing to bring up to a lady. :-/ but always handling things with tact should avoid any ill feelings.

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A professional provide job is to make the client happy, whether she makes a connection with the client or not. A bad review can cause her lots of money. I alway drop off an occasional bad review as long as most are in the good category. I alway check the reviewers past reviews to see if I feel his has a good record. There is a lot more to analyze a review then just a number.

If she gets defensive, then walk.  There are plenty of other choices.

I am so happy that you brought up this subject!

Telling the truth is not a crime. It should be a standard practice that is unfortunately overlooked in our society. As providers it's an unspoken understanding that we are not the stage name that we created but we are the women behind the mask deep down making us the established companions are we. A provider has the right to represent herself in any way she wants. Hobbyists' generally don't have an issue with it as long as everyone is comfortable.



You should never have to wonder if it is appropriate to ask someone what is the truth regarding negative reviews. I believe it should never be a problem to ask any question you wish to a provider as long as it is appropriate, of course. I personally do not have any negative reviews, but if I did, I would I want a chance to defend myself. I would also give a truthful explanation, good or bad, for the negative review. I welcome any question(s) or doubt that any gentlemen have of me. If I have any doubts with a new gentleman I certainly am not concerned to inquire especially if the inquiry puts my safety is jeopardy. Everyone has the right to their own opinion and no one person's experience with another person can ever be the same. This is why the Erotic Review provides a forum for both hobbyist and providers to share their experiences. In turn your positive reviews can help generate legitimacy as the provider we represent ourselves to be.



Sounds like a fair deal to me. If you are who you as you are, why would you need to worry about any negative reviews?





The point is that both parties have he right to confirm any doubts before they ever meet. Furthermore, any provider has the right to terminate a meeting for any reason.

Xoxo

Madison Moore