Hello Everybody,  
 
It's been a while since I've made any posts on the boards. As some of you know I was dealing with an intense family situation that has now passed (for those who didn't know- worst case scenario: cancer. No, not me). Thank you for all the kind notes and love sent my way these past few months.  I haven't quite made my jump back just yet, but I am looking forward to it!!!  I've missed you!  
 
Anyway.... so... There is a Chick Corea festival going on right now at Lincoln Center's Frederick Rose Hall (which is actually in time warner). I got to go thurs night to see Chick and it was simply spectacular.  Getting to hear him play live with a big band is something I won't soon forget! His wife even came out to sing a song! Outstanding!  
 
The reason this is relevant here is that there was a couple in the row below me. She spent almost the entire second set rubbing his crotch. She was not jerking him off, just rubbing.  
 
So it got me thinking about foreplay in public places. We often have threads asking about non-bedroom places where we've had sex. But what about simply heavy foreplay? Where having an orgasm and/or intercourse was not the main focus or intent of the experience.  
 
To help initiate, I'll proffer my own most erotic, non orgasm resulting, public experience. Broadway show. Wicked. The most amazing and erogenous foot rub I've ever had. He kept letting his fingertips graze up my leg a little ways before returning to my foot. He kept going higher and higher as the show went on. By the time we left and got home I was begging for more. This was with a boyfriend some 6 or 7 years ago. It's etched into my brain forever.  
 
Kiss me,  
 
Kate  
 
PS For those who'll want more details on the couple at the show: They were a good looking couple and it was hot as hell to keep seeing her hand moving on him. It's like she owned his cock and was just petting it throughout the show like one would pet a pussycat in one's lap. He was HERS, no doubt about it. And she lavished her attentions right back on him.

I love foreplay done on me in a packed movie theatre.

I used to "pet" with my dates all the time in theatres. But we'd try to sit toward the back (of course we weren't the only ones doing that. LOL!). When you're ~ 18 it was a real thrill to sit there with her hand rubbing your cock; also she'd have her sweather or coat covering her lap and my hand would go underneath up and down her leg (she was wearing a skirt) and stroke her crotch through her panties.
She'd rest her head on my shoulder turn toward me every once in awhile and we'd kiss. I don't even remember the movie  - that was secondary. LOL! Oh, those were the days! :-

Only you and your partner know what is actually going on.  

I've been in public situations where my lady will casually back up so that her firm curvy butt is just pressing against Jr. Prof.  She may move just a little bit to the left or right, or press a little firmer and then a little less. She may glance back at me to let me know the contact is not incidental, but intentional. If we are standing in line amongst strangers, it feels sexxy. If she does it while we are talking with another couple we know at a party, etc., it fells very naughty. Our secret, in public.

Another hot little move is when we are together and she goes to hold my hand, but just takes one finger and wraps her hand around it and simulates intercourse. She is more subtle if people can see our hands, but if we are sitting at a table, hands underneath, she can get more 'expressive'.  

I find the little gestures to be the most engaging of the mind (the sexiest organ of the body for foreplay)

irst off, great post.  It's always nice to take a walk down memory lane

Foreplay in the bedroom is nice, but we all know what’s coming next.  Sure there is anticipation, but it’s not quite the same as heavy (or even mild) foreplay in public.  The interesting twist on public foreplay is the element of risk and the perceived impropriety of the resulting arousal.  The chance that you might get caught and the fact that everyone around you will see your raging erection is an added element of spice that makes the public foreplay so much more intense.

One of the best dates ever started with salacious sexting and erotic emails that led to a full out public seduction (she tracked me down with clues I gave her via text, and then from across the room made her case why I should come to her).  We headed to dinner and a show that were both replete with heavy foreplay, and by the time we were in the cab back to the hotel I was totally hooked.  She could have done virtually anything to me and there would have been little protest.  What’s funny is that I remember very little about the sex that night, but everything leading up to the bedroom is seared into my memory for life.

This ‘date’ occurred in a city where I knew very few people, so I was more permissive in letting her have her way with me in public, and she knew that in advance.  Additionally she had asked a ton of questions before we met about how best to push my buttons and proceeded to execute her plan flawlessly.  Sure there were a few moments where I was a little embarrassed, but most of the time I was so distracted, I didn’t even notice.

So my $0.02… foreplay can be better than sex, and public foreplay can be better than public sex.  What I love about this hobby is that at the end of the day, you almost never need to worry about not having sex

Sometimes it can be the smallest thing - a lingering glance, a light touch in just the right place, that is all someone needs to have the other person on their mind for the entire night. The public part of it just makes it all the better - you KNOW you can't do anything at that moment so you have to settle for imagination and your fantasies of what the evening holds later. Sometimes I think there's no better foreplay than two people teasing each other like that!

MT, you and VisitingProf make some great points.

5+ years ago an SO and I once had some intense foreplay at the movies -- briefly, she wore a short skirt and thong, with thigh-high stockings and strappy heels and demanded I masturbate her several times throughout the film, and she let me taste her after she came.

She's now in the past, but that incident remains in both our consciousnesses.  I had to speak to her recently on another subject and she mentioned that incident, so she still recalls it and I'll never forget it.

Why foreplay? My SO and I were in the movies, nobody directly next to her, our seats in quite a dark area, my hand moved into her slacks, into her pantyhose, into her panties and finally into her pussy and she got a full fingerfucking, and she came. She moaned quite loudly; it was delightful for both of us. No idea what the movie was.

Thanks for sharing everyone! It's awesome to see how these fleeting moments can just linger in one's mind for years after the incident. Indeed, even still stirring bodily responses to the thoughts. It's interesting how much happens in the darker theaters.

I'm with MT. You're guaranteed the sex when with an SO or with a lover. It's what leads up to it that can make the night unforgettable.  

It makes me recall another incident. The breakfast buffet at a times square hotel, of all places. Definitely NOT the place for any sort of real pda or sneaking around. Too bright, too open. Fingernails trailing along skin, simply the forearm, sending flashes of electricity and longing. It hadn't led to anywhere that day, but the desire it created was intense and oh so lasting.  

I have to say I've been thinking about that couple all day. Good for them! Keeping desire alive. I'll make a pledge here and now to my evening dinner date and overnight companions- there will always be some sort of flirtation and insinuation while out. I think it adds a wondrous layer of sparkle to everything that might (lol, will!) come later.

Any more public flirting and foreplay stories? These are delicious to read about!

Kiss me,

Kate

...under my gown during a 5-star dining experience. I was buzzed and teased all evening long so that when we were finally in private, I begged to be pinned down and ravished!

And a remote control TENS unit, but not many people would consider that foreplay:-/

Many years ago I went to the beach in LI with my SO and while in the water I would run my hands slowly up and down the sides of her breasts but never touching nipple which would drive her crazy.  That and plenty of inner thigh teasing in between sharing passionate kisses and sweet talk.  It's funny what you do in younger years as I don't think either one of us looked around us or cared who might have been looking.  And if you are familiar with the waters at LI beaches, no one really saw anything anyway.  The theme continued through lunch, the concert later that evening and a memorable night that followed.  Thanks for bring up this topic and the memory!

with TWO  gentlemen??!! seating between them .. and both  want you and touch you with desire? who gives you drinks who fixes  dress on shoulder?

 Lovers ...  when  I started do threesomes with men ..it was .. hmm all not in states .. I remember when in states I scored two  gentlemen in  fancy night club and we were dining out and it was ooo much chemistry .. and I was all.. yes .. hot and ready and I  have had assumptions that we go together then to room ... what was my surprise  when they  took me  by turn aside and  told me - you have  to  pick him or me .. we  are friends but not like that .. and it was while one was nibbling my my neck and other going up from the knee to under the skirt under table .. ..

 So foreplay in public is hot ..  or one man or two men   or just two girls a ??
 ha ha ha .. just today I was in Star back with my friend  and  she did not wear   a jacket and was  cold  a bit and I rubbed her  shoulders  she as cold .. and  I see how men looked at  us .. so  ha ha ha  gentlemen .. you are  big babies and  we are not your adult toys  a ??
 Kissess

So, I haven't really had the opportunity to act on my interest of public foreplay, but I hope I'll have the opportunity to try out these scenarios sometime...

From my previous post here's what I'm interested in as far as public foreplay.... Very sneaky stuff.

I actually wanna be with a gal in public (she would have to be wearing a short mini skirt) so I can sneak a finger up her ass or sneak a little finger action on her vag on the sly, either in a crowded elevator or the back of a taxi or sitting at a restaurant with a table that has long linens over the table. Sneakin' a little bit of action like that and combining a few stolen DFKs would be way cool!

On, the other thing I'd like to do is be able to sneaks some grab ass or tap, tap, tap my fingers over the clit (in public as described above) when she's wearing skin tight pants. preferably if she's wearing those wet look - slick tight pants. Now that would be fuckin' cool! If she adds a little bit of sneaking in some tongue swapping action and few soft whispering moans in my ear -- we're off to the races! Ha!

nycad

This had been on my to do list for a long time.  

Ya know, the smaller the vibrating bullet, the more intense the vibe, because of how they make these little units these days.  

nycad

Hey NYCAD...i'm with you on fondling some camel-toe ion really tight shiny blk spandex leggings ! mmm...trying to make that happen ! Help !