at theartofsubmission.com   Their pitch is submissives, but most are switches and some are dommes.  About all are long-term providers and most are quite attractive; rates are reasonable; and they have a nifty incall in the East Village.  Video depends on the provider.     PM if you want more specifics. (not a lot, but some)

Opal allows filming for an extra fee, shes more submissive but can switch.

Check out my site and let me know if you think we would be a match. ◡̈