Well, thank you all very much for your insight and generosity with feedback. In the spirit of toftt, I went and saw this provider. Now I had spoken to her twice on the phone, and our rapport had a slightly awkward 'human-ness' to it that made me think it was real.
Well, when I show up, there is indeed a beautiful blonde girl there, more like the tall one on BP, and while she was gorgeous, was clearly not the GFE promised.
What did I do? Well in this mixed dwelling residential building on Park and 37th, I stood up, got dressed (was chillingly told to get undressed and lay on bed, again, clearly not the GFE I had spoken with. I said "you are giving me back my $300 if you are not GFE and do not kiss (we had multiple kissing conversations)" She said, "what about my time, (russian accent). I said YOUR TIME??. I then picked up a computer notebook and phone and repeated "YOUR TIME, WHAT ABOUT MY TIME?!" She gave me back my $300, another woman in the apartment came and apologized and asked me to please quietly leave. i took a picture of the super's contact just in case
All great points made. TGTBT, safety, etc..