Thank God you're allright.  Have a drink, relax and begin getting the word out.  We have a jerk here in Boston doing something very similar and I've asked a couple of providers for his name and address.  
When we enter this hobby, we're green and vulnerable, both of us.  The way we gain knowledge and experience is by hobbying and communicating.  That's what is so great about this resource.  We have a chance to get out there but limit somewhat the danger and chance of trouble.  We all need points and points count as experience when judging whether to see someone or allow someone to see us.  Unfortunately, you have to use a backchannell as you can't remove reviews or post your own.  
Ladies, never ever think twice about alerting the message board about a problem hobbyist and keep those records, don't disgard them.  I wish you could post his handle.  
It makes my fume when I hear this.  
Spread the word Ashley, even if it was a mistake or he was stoned or something, make him earn his way back.  Or let him go cruise the track in AC, maybe that's where he belongs.

Fibes
Go Red Sox!!

Thank God your ok and monet can always be replaced. I'll be talking to you soon reguarding this. Where where you when this happened in Boston or NYC, either way I'd be interested since I tend to frequent both places, any info would be appreciated, especially about this Boston character.

Samantha Summers of NY

Ashley,

I'm glad to hear that you are ok. Make sure to give this guys information to every provider that is in NY, so that this shit can not be pulled on someone else. Please also give me his information and I will spread it around to the providers that I see in the upcoming weeks. We need to stop crap like this from happening again!

Stay Safe!

-- Modified on 9/12/2004 7:53:28 PM

I think it's all been stated thoroughly and completely by my colleagues and friends below Ashley's posting.
Just to underscore the importance of timely communication and keeping the word out there on deviants such as this guy.
We are all with you Ashley, if you need our assistance, OR is you can think of anything we can do to help you, just say the word!

I just got back from a weekend away and saw your post.  Obviously, everyone has said what has to be said about your safety and this creep.

I have a suggestion for you and other providers.   When you are dealing with a new client, you should get his name and address, and then check the name against a driver's license when he arrives.    This alone may deter some creeps.  In addition, it gives you a name to follow up with.   I  don't mean turning to LE, but anyone who participates in this hobby should be sophisticated enough to know that there are extralegal ways of dealing with those who abuse providers.   Moreover, a real name may help track down the creep with help from TER, if he really is a TER member.

This is the kind of guy...
that I would like to have hung by his balls until the rest of him falls off.

I'm glad you are okay.
Take precautions and be safe.

-- Modified on 9/13/2004 8:01:22 AM

Ashley I hope that you are ok. Please call me and tell me everything is fine.