This may be strange question, but I was curious as to whether any of you guys have ever seen a provider outside the "workplace" ? In other words, dated her or even had a relationship (monetary included) ..

Here and there I've met someone I've wanted to see outside, but the circumstances never permitted this;

have had a long term thing with an asian gal i met at a massage joint....  she got out of the biz but we have seen each other for years..... eom
bob

there are probably a dozen threads on this topic.  But should you consider a relationship with a lady outside business hours, keep in mind the hobbyist's credo:  It's ALWAYS about the money, somehow, someway.

...I've had two experiences that way--you'd think that one would have been enough.  The money was only a part of it--with one of them we'd gone out half a dozen times, gave her some gifts, slept together off the clock, etc etc, and she asked for money for the next time. Blew me out of the water.  And out of the relationahip.   Next time, was with someone who was so afraid of letting go in a relationship that she used the provider-client thing as armor. As long as she was in control by picking up an envelope at the end, she was in command of the situation. When that ended, she got erratic and eventually bailed, and told me that was the reason, that she couldn't handle a level playing field.  Can't win for losing sometimes.

Good luck, all the same!

Yeah I 've got Asian girl I'm interested in now also; I wouldn't mind taking care of her financially as long as she gets out of the business; problem is they make a lot of money doing this, and it's not easy to match

Reo a search on the National Board...

I think you are wrong there many providers who could care less about money and therefore I respectfully disagree that is not about the $$$ with everyone.  I agree discretion is important, but generalities are a little harsh.

from my personal experience.  They are not all so hardened.

-Hoot.

People meet in a strange way. It's just like a mystic.

Hi,

I've had long term relationships with two different providers.  They also happened to be porn stars. It wasn't about the money...but money did matter.

I've gone through times when I had a lot of money and then when I didn't have any.  The problem was more mine than theirs.  Basically, I didn't want them to work after I started spending more and more time with them.  I didn't come out and say that...I just tried to block them.

After a while, those times when I didn't have money...we still hung out (had sex, etc.) but we spent less time together.  I want to stress we continued to have a sexual relationship...it's just that they would get busy...or be gone.

They even on occasion tried to help me  (monetarily) but unfortunately (I guess) I don't have the pimp mentality.

That's my two cents....again..they're not all about the money.