Hey- for background, I am in my 40's, white, professional, married, kind to women
and easygoing. I have not yet used a EROS professional but have had several experiences with
sugar babies-I have been looking for a review website but can't find one so thought I
would go here- my main goal is too see what is the "market" out there and to keep the
price down- we all work too hard for our money.

I have found the following, in NYC, I can get a head turning hot girl- believe me I am picky and dated my share of 10's before I got married--- but not the hottest- girl to spend several hours with me in a hotel for 500-600. I usually say 500 but if pushed, I will go to to 600 but demand alot more time and make sure I can a BJ- they ALL give head and about 75% will let me cum in their mouth as a condition to dating and if
we really get together alot, then of course they do, but then it is a relationship. Some demand a picture up front which I never send -and they have moved on-but many will meet me and I have never been refused.

I have found the hottest girls - a swimsuit model for SI---are not on the site- or sign up and are quickly scooped up-but the ones just below that are all over.  

I had a girl who models in fashion week agree to spend several hours for 700.  
I met one girl- 34DD natural and beautiful and sweet, with her own place, 1k for 2 hours+, she
was off the charts.  I gave her 2k upfront but had two visits. Most of the girls are honest and just
want to be treated with respect.

Just this week, I agreed to see a very hot girl who insisted on 1k but she was willing to spend 3-4 hours
alone, have sex multiple times-, laugh at my jokes (not easy) etc. and she was smoking. Of course,
her first attempt was to say "her prior SD paid her 6k month + bags and shoes"- kind of like the mythical real estate investor who puts up all the capital with no terms!- They don't exist, and If I can find that guy, I want to have a conversation with him.  

can someone create a website where we can review our experiences and publicize it. Is anyone really buying these girls 3k bags, etc.  Is anyone really putting these girls on retainer for 5k/or even 3k a month?  if you are, please let us know, I bet it is very few, even in NYC, but we could ask people to sign up and get a general feel for it.  

Most of these girls are great- they are intelligent, in or just out of college and need some help, won't be turned into prostitutes, but figure, if they can date a wonderful, older guy, why not get some cash, and I agree with them.   I would love to hear your experiences. I would like TER to create a website for sugardating. It will be flooded with men and maybe there is a way to make some money as well. I am married so it would cost me a fortune to do it  

i don't know how this works so if the supervisor wants to take a look, I clicked to email me on response so I assume it goes to my hidden email but would like this to be public as well

This post is really quite ridiculous. Just because you personally do not have 6k+ a month to give a girl along with bags and shoes does not mean these guys do not exist. What line of work are you in? Have you met any finance hot shots that wipe their asses with 1K a few times a day? Not only do these rich gentlemen exist, they also tend to be easier to please than guys who don't think women are worth the money.  

You are clearly asking other hobbyist if they have found extraordinary sugar babies that are willing to go the extra mile for very little cash. Let me tell you these girls are around however, they are not smoking hot swimsuit models that you desire. The saying "You get what you pay for" is very typical in this hobby. I commend you for finding those women you say you enjoyed, but they clearly did not stick around for the long haul.

Keep in mind you are also asking a board that is clearly for escorts and hobbyists this is not a sugar baby site. Most of the women here have dabbled in the SB/SD relationship and have found it's just not worth the time you put in (unless you find a real keeper). That being said, I have found an amazing arrangement in the past. We met at a starbucks of all places IRL and not online. He not only paid my rent 2.5K a month he also gave me a 4K limit per month on the CC he gave me in my name. On top of all of this generosity he also showered me with gifts the very few times we met a month! This wonderful arrangement came to a halt when his wife and children my age found out.

I'm genuinely curious what every one else has to think about this whole thing. I love my clients, but I love keeping them at arms length. I don't actually have time for texting and emailing all day and I like having our appointment to catch up.

glad someone responded, because I would never see you, you aren't hot enough- I think you are pretty, but for 800, I get much better play on SA and longer time- and a younger girl- I am in finance and could easily dangle a bit more green but why do that- for 1k -and my looks and easygoing personality- that is as far as i have to go, and I am sure some guys will dangle more, but I just don't think it is that many and there are oodles of girls looking for extra cash. Another girl - charges 1k on her EROS website was willing to see me for over 2 hours because she advertized on SA- it was taken down- same girl, twice as long--- and VERY hot.  
lets publicize it gentlemen---- so we can see what is out there- make criteria and chart it- and THANKS for commenting.

So, oscar, are you trolling us or just shilling for SA? Because if insulting the first woman to respond to your post is an example of your "easygoing personality", its hard to imagine that too many babies invite you for a second date.

I would not see you either so I'm glad we have that covered. No one "Dangles" money at me. My clients have no problem paying my fee without trying to Lure me to see them. I was also trying to say why are you posting SB questions on a NON SB forum? I am not a SB and do not advertise to be. If you seem so happy on SA why are you looking here? Are you just trying to get men on your side or ruffle working women's feathers?

WYRDSON said it perfectly and I appreciate that.  

you know you are right, it was a mistake- apologies!!!!

One opinion is that many girls can handle SB/SD arrangements because it is not escorting, legally or in their own mind. Once you start reviewing formally and describing the arrangements in more TER-like details, especially down to the services per dollar aspect, it ceases to be a Mutual Aid Society and has "descended" (no offense intended ladies, you know that I mean descended legally) into the illegal world of P4P.  

As long as the "purity" of the SB/SD world is intact, it will attract more SBs and maybe even more SDs who don't want to cross the legal line.  Once the boundaries become blurred, some SBs will cross over willingly, some will cross over reluctantly and some will choose to stay away completely

im not talking about reviewing anyone in particular- that wouldn't be fair to anyone, especially the girls,
i meant more like  

how much did you pay for date
how old was date
how hot
how long was date
did you put anyone on retainer/how much.
nothing sexual- just pricing-

very broad, nothing personal, chart it, come up with a price.
the men -especially the fianancy types and the NYPost would love it

Pick the color, features, trim packages, extras and see the distribution of prices paid in your geographic area. You don't want to be the one guy far out there on the right who paid $15k more than average, you want to be the guy on the left who got the great deal $5k below average, but maybe you're still OK paying around average.  

Some might still prefer to have some specifics. If you're ok with basic info ("4 wheels and an engine") and don't mind the lack of detailed specs ("runs on premium only but delivers a high quality ride for hours at a time" or even MORE specific), a "TrueSB" histogram might be useful as a guide.

Go for it.

...sugar dating board.  Some of what you seek is already there, although, currently, it is more of a narrative description of approach and experiences.  Much of it serves as a very helpful primer to entering the sugar world.

There isn't the full-fledged metric-based info that seems to be part of what you seek on the board.  But some of that is there.

You posted it to the wrong site.  You need to find a comedy site

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I regretted my post after he responded. What a waste of my time.

If you want to create this reviewing site will it not just be the same as hiring a call girl? The whole point of a SB is to feel like she is a GF even though its an illusion. A website to rate and let people how much you pay them is the same thing as reviewing on TER.

If only your wallet was as big as your ego.

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Rosie,

It's really quite disgusting that he says "my main goal is too see what is the "market" out there and to keep the price down"

by the way - send those hot girls for 500 and 100 extra with CIM and few hours to TER without any SD SB site - gentlemen here may be not all as able donate 5K  But 1000 for 2 hours donating pretty easy.

Amazing men,  have a mercy on those super hot girls and send them here.
  As min you would pat them that way.

Those men you wan to talk - those would not talk to you. Those are busy with their women - and they have many of those - and wives and SB and escorts.  Plus they are busy making money.  
 They even do not read reviews here , do not browsing tons of pictures .. - THOSE MEN HAVE MONEY _ YET THEY ARE BUSY WITH REAL LIFE - what ever it is - or their business or their women  
 when they need a woman -
 They do speak directly to a woman.  They are even not VIP here to read reviews.
 Those even not asking passwords to locked pictures.  
 THEY DO TALK directly  to woman and as soon as they found one reliable and drama free drugs free, STD free , not a sex worker with inherited  phycological problems - they  do make an arrangements.  

How to you think hot sexy wise women do manage their lives if they are not wives and not CEO?

Those high rollers  are here and reading this..  and even more high rollers who is totally comfy with 2000 K and tips as 1000 or / and  deposits for presents,.  

You my dear have to become a man .. I feel so sorry for you wife. I wonder and how long she will last with you? I bet till kids  be in college.  
 

 

 

 

 

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He's an asshole. You're a Queen. People love to sling mud to feel better, and it's pretty easy through the anonymity of online. xox

Me too! The quality of SD has gone done considerably as it's become more known. Too many guys want to be spoiled and don't want to pay for what my time is worth. So, BYE FELCIA!

I think sugar dating is escorting, just a little different arrangement.  

Most sugar babies don't have only one sugar daddy, they have multiple gentlemen giving them money and gifts for their time. She will not tell you she has couple sugar daddies but she does...It might not be as rushed as escorting, because with your sugar daddy it's like a "fake" boyfriend you go out and do stuff with. But at the end of the day it's likely that his an older man paying you for your time. Point blink haha.  

Sometimes sugar dating it's too much time consuming because you have to find your potential sugar daddy, meet with him and then discuss the details. Too much time spent if you don't end up matching for each other. And there's a lot of "fake" sugar daddies on seekingarrangement

Not kidding. I'm late 50s very successful, cultured, well traveled, fit, educated and decent looking she 30 and ridiculously classy, educated, gorgeous, warm, funny, multi lingual, anatomically perfect, great travel companion, $1000 a date included overnights and many weeks & weekends of travel. Lost her after a psychic said she had to go, and that coincided with her desire for children, a 9 figure net worth unattached serious guy showed up (from her past) and it was time for her to leave at the top too. Cost ? Best deal ever. Her inspiration increased business more than enough for $10,000-25000 monthly expenses together and truly the time of my life. Lasted 9 months too. THAT is an arrangement not a kept woman. I assure you I won't find another like her and quite frankly, once was enough. I'll be the happiest ( and poorest ) guy in the cemetery.

I do not want your limited menu or assets at the rate you request for your time when a lady who brings the OP or a hobbyist happiness, laughter, companionship outside the BR, incredible chemistry along with encouraging another girl join on occasion for 2 on 1 sessions who also for the visually stimulated is an all natural 32DD size zero with angelic silky and long  blonde hair who makes sure you sleep well all for the cost of an hour with an A cup tall thin lady is a VERY RELEVANT discussion and these ladies DO exist. As a finance guy who doesn't wipe his ass with thousands but has happily pissed away umpteen millions I can vouch these arrangements with "smoking hot swimsuit models" are available all over the internet. These ladies don't want escort hours, ie to be on call 24 hours or to subject their bodies to that which most escorts have to deal. Further many work for the top female modeling agencies ( I know several IRL ) and lastly no one texts or emails more than once or twice a day if at all. Btw my wife figured it out, took awhile and is happy as can be I'm still around. Hell, a successful arrangement is  better than sex with a 50-60 year old post menopausal wife and it's even better when you're exclusively bareback.

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eason being is that...You guys are not giving enough of an allowance. You are spreading it around like bird seed.  
SDs 10 years ago were far more generous, and yes 10K+ a month with quarterly shopping / travel did exist.  

SBs on SA and Social Media are seeing that Escorts are winning! Giving a chica 1K for overnights?? Ridiculous!, While Escorts are advertising 5k + for overnights. The game of sugaring is changing.  It's not borderline Escorting. It is Escorting, but under a lower price point and more time invested, which is a HEAD scratcher ( no pun intended )  Every day a new SB is signing up on this end & other ad boards. Look around and you will see. The birth of another SB/Escort.

 
Clap for them!

I did not sugar because of this. Oh the tales I can tell before I became an escort, I ran for the hills from SA lol.

How are you "kind to women" when you are admitting to 1. being a cheap dick 2. pretty much taking advantage of these naive girls and conning them to get your rocks off.

SA is shit because of guys like you that want the most for the least. A sugar baby isn't on SA to "be treated with respect", they're there for money and you're essentially conning them. Us escorts work hard for our money too, you failing to realize that kinda proves how you think of women ^_^

I am so lost in lust and pure fun that I could not tell the difference between a sugar baby and anything else.  You are sugar sweet  and you always rock my world.  Review to come.  Email me if you figure out this alias.

Well put and thoughtful analysis.

Probably best not to post at all about SB's here, it's not beneficial to anyone.