I posted a thread a couple of days ago about a quick question but it turned out to be like three paragraphs. So I'm just going to be straight to the point this time.
     
     Are any providers within NY/LI willing to see a virgin?  

Would love to talk and schdule

How am I a troll?

it would be a pleasure if youre still looking.  
check out my website and let me know what u think

"Close the door leave us for awhile . You wont be a boy no more you will be young but not a child." You will get extra points if you can tell me where that quote came from. I am a fun and patient young spinner and I would love to give you the time of your life.  

Points for me too ? Acid Queen - Tina Turner... KIss you

I love that kind of brainers .. make me smile and brings sooo much joy .. I almost squirt to my pants when see brainy quotes ...
   
XO XO Xo Carmin
 I am sooo naive about all that  
 XO  
or OX .. so may sign  
 wrong way  
 Does it matter how many XXX or ooo O  ( big O is always better
 So am I correct ..  Acid Queen - Tina Turner

You can "put me right" anytime, Carmina!

But then on the other hand, technically it would would have been a felony for the provider at my age then.

Ditto  

Who better to learn from than a pro?

I think most providers would be ok with this. We are usually happy as long as you are nice, polite, and have good hygiene.

That's pretty much what I'm trying to look for but I'm not sure. I was told the higher the price the better. I don't really have any problems with hygiene.
     There's the problem I think I'm having, when I message providers I write A LOT. I can't think of how to word it but I write so much that I think I scare them off. I just write to much info like, how much is the donation rate(if I don't see one) then I ask the approximate location so I can see how far away they work from me, ask if the are ok with seeing someone "inexperienced"(virgin), I ask how many pops I would get, what they prefer, etc. I try to be too safe to the point where it's pretty much ruining my chances meeting anyone. I just want to make sure that they are ok with certai things and I want to make sure about 2 things every time which are, if they are I'm with seeing a virgin and how many pops they would allow.
 

Yeah that's always my concern, and I only have the money to meet a provider not enough to but a membership to p411. The only thing I could afford right now is maybe a month of VIP on TER and a 250-300 provider.

I am in person. Hygiene was never a problem since I like to be really clean. Everyone is always saying how mature and polite I am, the only negative thing about me is that I'm very, very shy. Too shy to the point where I haven't lost my virginity because of it.  

Most providers will decline to see you if you ask explicit questions such as how many "pops" you get.  You may be a virgin, but you don't have to act like a "n00b" when contacting providers.  Pay for VIP on this site so you can know the answers to your questions about a lady's personal style before contacting her.  Only contact ladies who you already know would be a good match for you.  You should already know answers to questions like what her rates are and how many "pops" she allows BEFORE you contact her.

I was shy around women once a long, long, long, long, long time ago.

P411 is great, totally great.  But you would not be able to just join very easily.  Don't rush yourself.  The VIP is definitely worth getting first to help pick a lady.  You don't want your first experience to be a rip off!  I would suggest looking for one who is good about White Listing guys.  You can find that my looking for her White List references under the review listings of guys who have reviewed the provider.  Build up two or three White List references here over time and then think about P411 later when your budget is better.

Yeah, don't do that, Zoey Zacquery is totally right.  Let the lady's reviews answer your questions including rate.  Your only initial communication should be centered on date, time, and general location.  Then specific location just before it's time to head over.  The virgin part I'm not sure about how best to mention that.

Thank you for the tips! I'll be sure to not make the mistake of writing too much and just focus on those 3 points.

Posted By: Zoey Zacquery

Most providers will decline to see you if you ask explicit questions such as how many "pops" you get.  You may be a virgin, but you don't have to act like a "n00b" when contacting providers.  Pay for VIP on this site so you can know the answers to your questions about a lady's personal style before contacting her.  Only contact ladies who you already know would be a good match for you.  You should already know answers to questions like what her rates are and how many "pops" she allows BEFORE you contact her.  
   
 Your initial inquiry should focus on:  
 - where and when you'd like to meet  
 - for how long you'd like to meet  
 - disclosure that you are inexperienced, but that you have researched her style and know you'd like to explore with her, and also that you promise to have excellent hygiene.  
   
 You should not have a problem if you follow this advice.  
   
 PS.  
 Paying more money is not always a guarantee of a better time.  There is a general correlation, but there are always exceptions.  Paying money for VIP so you can read reviews and profile details will help you immensely though.  
   
 Best of luck!  I've taken some V-cards but never in P4P.  Definitely taken some prostate/assplay virginities in P4P but I don't think that's what you're looking for.    
   
 Smooches~  
 Zoey Zacquery xoxo  
   

Posted By: NyOtaku

    That's pretty much what I'm trying to look for but I'm not sure. I was told the higher the price the better. I don't really have any problems with hygiene.  
       There's the problem I think I'm having, when I message providers I write A LOT. I can't think of how to word it but I write so much that I think I scare them off. I just write to much info like, how much is the donation rate(if I don't see one) then I ask the approximate location so I can see how far away they work from me, ask if the are ok with seeing someone "inexperienced"(virgin), I ask how many pops I would get, what they prefer, etc. I try to be too safe to the point where it's pretty much ruining my chances meeting anyone. I just want to make sure that they are ok with certai things and I want to make sure about 2 things every time which are, if they are I'm with seeing a virgin and how many pops they would allow.  
     
     

Posted By: Courtney.Ova

Who better to learn from than a pro?    
       
   I suggest MILF type, or a woman very comfortable in her sexuality that is in your area, in case you want some extra lessons from someone experienced and - again - comfortable and seasoned sexually.    
       
   I say go for it. Don't try for saving too much, especially for your first time. You want to make it an awesome experience, so do your research. Also, be super squeaky clean - anyone will perform better for you if you don't smell funny. If you have a bush, comb it with a fine tooth comb if you can't shave or trim, because the comb pulls out the loose hairs and won't get into her mouth. It will help YOU get a better bj if she's not distracted by anything.    
       
   Anyway, do the best you can in your selection, but don't expect every regular girl after her to be a pro lol. You may be spoiled!!! LOL

After reading all the comments I know what to do now thank you. Now my only concern in how to approach the lady about me being a virgin. I read some stories about how clients told them once they were about to do it and they said it made it awkward for the both of them. That's why I'm I'm looking for a provider that is comfortable with seeing a virgin. Like Zoey wrote, I should they them I'm inexperienced and I have researched their style and I would like to explore with them. The thing is my interpretation of that is I only had a relation once or twice.  
     
     I'll do my research and try find a provider that would fit me right but if I do find a lady that I find might be the one I'm not sure how to approach her about me being a virgin, sure I can say I'm inexperienced but she might think I only had sex a couple of times. I just want to be safe and make sure she is more than ok about seeing a virgin so it would make both of us comfortable.