I want to know if I am being unreasonable or does this person really have a problem...  

It sounds like two clueless newbies or two time wasters gaming each other. You should have a mentor or a scheduler.

Send him a polite email asking him to refund the hotel cost, allow him 48 hours to respond, if he doesn't then send it again and wait another 48 hours.

This Person was playing with you and never intended to see you, I don't think it's unfair at all to black list him,  after  all do you think he is thinking at all how much he inconvenienced you? I think inconveniencing him is the very least you can do. just my 02...

No, I don't think you're being unreasonable at all.  If it was me, I would have stopped replying to him when he started getting explicit and then begging for forgiveness.  You don't need the headache from guys like this one.  If he acts like this during pre-screening, what is he going to be like when you meet him?  

OMG man!!! Why are you bashing the girl????? regardless if  she is new or not handing her appointments they way YOU see fit, why would she blacklist herself?  May be we should all aspire to be as professional as you are my friend..

And maybe you will get blacklisted by the provider who you were cross examining above. Make up your mind.

You should have cut off communication with him much earlier. Put him on your DNS, fine. But BL the guy? Negative!  

Two things I need to improve.  

Good for you! Responses are not always what you want to hear but you are new and learning the ropes. Threatening to blacklist will scare a lot of us away. There are enough trigger happy providers already. Hit the newbie board. You can learn much there

Because when girls DONT respond, its "she's high volume" but when she emails a hobbyist back she's a newbie? I think not.  

It is "you're" or "you are", and "Dummy". Will you take a few phonics books as tips?  
 

Its not her fault at all , lately clients are asking for more and more including selfie photos . yesss black list the jerk. he is inconsiderate

Dude,

our = ownership... which equals YOU being  the owner of dummy ... award will be given.

Want to blacklist a guy you were sexting ? Huh u sure this is the right line of work for you ...

Full of "expert" opinions, just like before. Where's your credibility in all this? Any reviews? Any actual experience? Lots of criticism, but no evidence of action.

Will turn away guys ... as for my reviews I have them however they are of no use to you as the ladies I see are way out of your league ! LoL.....

Here and hits the newbie board also the sound advice of the lovely ms.davette and goes on the po board for help and advice ...! Have a nice day bro..

with the girls out of my league. Those of us in the cheap seats are dying to know what a hot shot stud you are.

Flattering but your not
My type .......! LOL..........

Hi. I have a good feeling about you. I think you are making the common mistakes of most new girls. We all did these mistakes. When you have a good heart and are assuming the best out of people, it can come to a bit of a shock when a man acts this way. I think somewhere along the way, you start to really trust your instincts and see the signs of who might be a messer and who is serious. You will see in the emails, the way they speak with you, who you're going to have issues with and who will be a delight to see. To never be jaded, you must really filter and not give any time to the time wasters. You really will see the red flag at the beginning. A little flag always grows to a big flag. There are rarely any real surprises. I personally wouldnt black list this guy. He's obviously a typical time waster. Most girls can see the signs right away. I take blacklisting pretty serious, and would only do it for the violent really crazy men. You're new, and I think you'll learn from these experiences. Your website is very classy and you will attract the nice professional gentlemen. See how they treat you and use that as your base on how you want to be treated and spoken to. You have the right to decide on how you will be treated by men. I know so many girls think about the money and go ahead and see someone who they dont like. But I could never do that anymore. I like there to be a friendly lovely encounter where both of us are happy with the date and time we spent together. So a few pointers are, look for red flags at the start and then dont go further if you feel one is raised. Never stop your life on a guess of a date. Be sure it is confirmed before changing your plans. Never book a hotel room for one person unless you have either seen them before, or they have given a deposit or something that really assures you that they are serious. It's common for ladies to get angry and become sad or jaded in this industry. I can see you are sweet and kind hearted. Dont let ourself get jaded or angry. Stay sweet and trusting. Just be wise, clever, alert and never be a fool. Never think of money first. Always think of getting the best result and enhancing the goodness in your life. Greed, selfishness, anger will never make us better people in any way. Keep yourself a loving good person no matter what. Forgive and let go. These really can be a part of this adult world. It's a challenge, but it can be accomplished and you will be so happy as a result of never losing heart or spirit. Its all about watching the flags and not putting yourself in a situation to be disrespected or treated badly. Its ok to say No to someone. You are allowed to say no. I think many girls fear to say no. If you dont have a good feeling about someone, just say no.

And trust me girls are shaking their heads at your dumbass responses ........yup got 2 PMS already about you ..

I actually think that this is the best post of the many made here, and I think that Cameo gave excellent advice and made an accurate assessment of the guy you were thinking about blacklisting. I'd make Cameo a friend and exchange PMs with her for her advice. I know that the girls are competitors, but they should be able to help each other out. As they say, it is the hard lessons that are learned the best.