I wouldn't ask any provider for anything OTC unless she states she does do OTC meetings for coffee.

High end ladies will view you as a time waster. Lots of guys want to "hang out" with hot girls for free. Too many guys willing to pay a high end girl for her to spend time with you for free. I have seem many girls OTC. But thats AFTER I have built a relationship of trust with them. To get OTC with them you have to prove yourself to THEM first, not the other way around. And even then, it doesnt happen often, and with some ladies, it doesnt happen at all.

You really are paying for her time.  Remember, she could be doing a regular session for the full amount.  Never ask for OTC time up front.  You earn it by being a good client who she ends up liking.  You don't ask for it.  If she suggests it, or hints at it, then say you'd be happy to take her out.  I've done it lots of times this way.  But your approach will just piss her off.

I've seen this on a few Elite/VIP websites. They require a meeting in public right before the date like at a nearby coffee shop- often they have a charge (e.g. $100) for this brief meeting which some may apply to toward the date if you pass this "mutual compatability".

Hey how about this....make a decision ...good or bad !!!.....All these different posts about OTC..... It's a friggin hobby !!! make a decision and go with it...right or wrong....see her or don't see her.... I am not taking either side here...but really it's a friggin business decision on both sides....and the only way to go about any business decision is...either Do It or Don't Do iT !! then MOVE ON !!! ... Bottom line is if anyone asks about OTC ..... it's being CHEAP !!! Period !!!.... Think about it if you were in your own business whatever it might be, if you were with a new client and the first thing they said was can you let me not pay you till I decide if I like you or your work , how long would it be befroe that word got out and everyone was doing the same thing and then not paying for services rendered ..... come on ... after you get a new client and you choose to throw in extras ...whatever your line of work is different....that's Good Business !!!.... but... Candy Coat it all you want and I'm sure the retorts will be Priceless , As Always ...but that's really what it's about. Getting something for nothing is ...Usually.....a bad do....because YOU GET WHAT YOU PAY FOR!!!! ....Now...that all being said....if you establish with someone and hit it off and you both agree that's a different story ...but any .... right off the bat , " Can we do an OTC, so I can see if we'll like each other ? " STOP !!! ......just my opinion....... Fire Away !!!!....

Good escorts have no shortage of clients or opportunities, whether they're "high end" or not.  If you're interested in adding her to your regular rotation, the best way of doing so is by showing that you're willing to follow her terms and that you respect her time.  Include the initial meet and greet as part of your paid appointment.  Few things raise red flags more than someone who looks like they're trying to bargain.  

Very few do it, for the same reason I mentioned above.  Her time is her time.  What you do with it is up to you, but you'll pay the going rate 99 times out of 100.  And if you try to negotiate something like this with her beforehand, she'll be gone.

it really depends not only on the kind of relationship you gys have, but also on other things, such as are you happy if she leaves you if a booking comes up, or would you be happier if you were the cause of her loss of earnings? ect  

You're missing everyone else's point.  

Exactly!   I also knew what he was asking for.  No confusion there.  To repeat, when you ask for a clock-free "get to know you" meeting, you are asking for a freebie by not wanting to pay for her time.  End of story.  Most girls won't even respond to a request like this and will just move on, refusing to answer your emails or calls.
What he really ought to do is, if he qualifies (and given his alias status, who knows), go to some Meet & Greets.  They are great for getting to know girls in a casual social setting, which is the entire purpose of a M&G.  Most cost $100 for an evening of socializing, drinks and light food.  Money well spent.

You sound like the cheapest client who always books an hour, but demands the most bang for the buck. Do you want to interview us? We are not interested. You're not even worth seeing. You're a taker. How much do you want me to bet that you aren't a repeat client, that you don't book long appointments, that you don't ever tip or bring a gift, that you overwhelm providers with your requests, e-mails or phone calls before and after the appointment and that you believe you are a provider's best friend after a short appointment?? Get off your high horse, you aren't a good client. I wouldn't spend a free minute with you, before or after the appointment.

Why the HELL would a girl do OTC with every guy who wants to see if they click? Yeah ok I could do "freebies" of which you are asking for a good 80 people a week. You either want to meet or not. Shit or get off the pot. Why would you need a meeting anyways if you are doing your research? You pretty well have a good feel on her if you read her reviews.

They've got great reviews, fabulous decor and certainly look like a place i would like to patronize on regular basis.

I think I am going to email them and ask for one night free of charge to see if I want to stay there in the future.

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You would like to schedule an appointment with a service provider.  Said service provider charges for her TIME.  Whether you spend this time having sex or discussing current state of politics is irrelevant.

Asking for OTC meeting is the same as asking an attorney to give you free consultation, a doctor to treat you for free, a hotel to provide you with free accommodations etc etc.

If you must have such OTC meeting, then you are better off with either going to M&G or sticking to SB/SD playground.

When we see new  clients, we're looking for new regulars to add to OUR rotation as well, so some of us choose wisely when it comes to new clients.

A hobbyist looking for a sugar baby/sugar daddy agreement is actually a cheap client looking for a discount. Like anyone is going to fall for that, especially the high end companions you're interested in. Not even a sugar baby would have a free lunch meeting with you, daddy. Go back to the dating scene.

Wanted to deduct the time it took for showers on either end of a one hour booking ? You didn't want to personally lose one minute of time yet you find it to be a good idea for her to lose an hour plus travel  to have lunch with you ? I don't get it why is your time more valuable than hers ? Kendall Lynn

Kendall wouldn't piss on you if you were doused in gasoline, lit on fire and desperately waving around your couple of grand as payment.

Here is the link in which you asked  in that post about the showers  "Solo Showers ".
You shouldn't get so angry you had no issue with it then.
Also , please realise so you don't get so pissed when someone calls you on it , you using a alias does not mean your posts are not searchable threw our search function here at the top of the page  . If you enter your name Tenderfoot12345 You will find among your other posts this one  , your welcome:  

and will again, I'd say you'd be wise to know who your're talking about before you slam her, toad.  As to the rest of your drivel, keep in mind the old saying:
It is better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than to speak and remove all doubt.

Ohhh, snaps! U go girl! LOL!

nycad

Standing higher end ladies on this board with a stellar reputation. But being the "high end" roller that you claim to be you must have allready known that?? Funny, you say there's ANOTHER guy using the alias "tenderfoot" on the NY board?? What are the chances??  

Call the Four Seasons RIGHT NOW, fool!  They will not let you look at a room they will send you to their web site saying you can see the rooms there.  If you call the corporate office the will refer you to their long-standing reputation and reviews on hotels.com, Travelocity, etc.  then, if you continue to be a whiny bitch trying to get something for free they will make a note of your name and number on the caller iD and continue to ignore your contact or demand a credit card number for a deposit so they are compensated for any more time you may waste with a deposit.

What? Nobody wants to play with Mr High Roller in his lonely sandbox?

Sometimes all the money in the world is not enough to put up with ......

But there's no way to know if the OP would qualify for admission.  As you know, heavy screening is involved for everyone's security.

This is psych profiling 101, albeit the sort we all engage in when seeking out play partners (platonic or erotic) to create or reinforce our own personal life scripts, or to fill needs.  

indicates no such subtlety and obliqueness of thought.

I have a M&G option on my website fore $160 to see if we have chemistry prior to play.  I often attempt to attend M&G's on TER to find connections, but I have to pay for childcare regardless, so why should you get to enjoy a top rated providers company in a public setting for nada?