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Re: Lots girls (the smart ones) require three refs.
Monk69 815 reads
posted
1 / 12
Screening gone wild?

I contacted a well-reviewed provider off of an Eros ad this week and she asked me for four (!) references. Really? That was in addition to employer info.

I'm as sensitive to the need for screening as the next guy, but there has to be a limit. Either you trust a reference, or not.  

I tend to see a lot of UTR providers, so this just doesn't work for me. But, beyond that, if you really think about it, asking for four references means you're asking to see hobbyists who are regular players—guys who are seeing quite a few providers a month. Which, I would argue, isn't necessarily the safest way of going about your business in the first place.

BiancaJaguar See my TER Reviews 444 reads
posted
2 / 12
hmmmm

That is a lot...I ask for 2...but i will take one if thats all they can give me...+ the rest..name...etc
We all have our method of screening...if one doesn,t do it...I'm sure another one will ;)
BJ xxx

Related Link: http://www.biancajaguar.com/

toofuckingstupid 328 reads
posted
3 / 12
instead of whining about the shit, just move on. no one is going to change for you! eom.

Posted By: Monk69
I contacted a well-reviewed provider off of an Eros ad this week and she asked me for four (!) references. Really? That was in addition to employer info.  
   
 I'm as sensitive to the need for screening as the next guy, but there has to be a limit. Either you trust a reference, or not.  
   
 I tend to see a lot of UTR providers, so this just doesn't work for me. But, beyond that, if you really think about it, asking for four references means you're asking to see hobbyists who are regular players—guys who are seeing quite a few providers a month. Which, I would argue, isn't necessarily the safest way of going about your business in the first place.

nycad 20 Reviews 385 reads
posted
4 / 12
Sorry you feel this way, but it's their perogative....

The provider has the right of refusal if you don't follow their screening. If you're not happy with that, there's plenty of other opportunities.  

Cheers!

-nycad

inicky46 61 Reviews 319 reads
posted
5 / 12
Lots girls (the smart ones) require three refs.

So why is four a deal-breaker?

roseman1 222 Reviews 254 reads
posted
6 / 12
No response from ladies. (A question for the ladies)

In response to three active advertising independent providers I recently supplied screening information via email, exactly as requested by each provider.  Screening information was provided just before or at the start of their local area tours.  Having received no reply within two days, I followed up with a courteous email to each of the three providers, but again received no response.

So with interest in reading the previous posting from a provider, is it common to not receive any provider feedback because not all ladies "have the time to respond in a timely manner'?  Or no response within a month (as in my case after reaching out to three providers) with at least some words saying, "Sorry I missed you; I'll catch you on the next tour. . ."

Human nature dictates that one would be much less inclined to consider a rendezvous with these providers for any of their future tours.

Can any ladies share any insight into this phenomenon?  The non-responses seem unusual. None of the emails were rejected BTW.

BiancaJaguar See my TER Reviews 455 reads
posted
7 / 12
Re: Lots girls (the smart ones) require three refs.

Posted By: inicky46
So why is four a deal-breaker?
I do not ask for 3 references and still consider myself pretty damn smart....
BJ
Related Link: http://www.biancajaguar.com/

BiancaJaguar See my TER Reviews 297 reads
posted
8 / 12
Re: No response from ladies. (A question for the ladies)

Posted By: roseman1
In response to three active advertising independent providers I recently supplied screening information via email, exactly as requested by each provider.  Screening information was provided just before or at the start of their local area tours.  Having received no reply within two days, I followed up with a courteous email to each of the three providers, but again received no response.  
   
 So with interest in reading the previous posting from a provider, is it common to not receive any provider feedback because not all ladies "have the time to respond in a timely manner'?  Or no response within a month (as in my case after reaching out to three providers) with at least some words saying, "Sorry I missed you; I'll catch you on the next tour. . ."  
   
 Human nature dictates that one would be much less inclined to consider a rendezvous with these providers for any of their future tours.  
   
 Can any ladies share any insight into this phenomenon?  The non-responses seem unusual. None of the emails were rejected BTW.
No response at all!! oh my...I can't answer for those ladies but in my case I try to answer very promply...like within the hour...if im not busy of course...but it will never take 2 days and I will always reply...Yes screening process takes time...and I just wish some gent would realise this when calling or texting are you available now?..huh..."I wil be once I verify you....duh"
BJ
Related Link: http://www.biancajaguar.com/

toofuckingstupid 396 reads
posted
9 / 12
at least one person does.

providers who are lax on screening scream desperate for money to me and put others at risk. not saying that's you, but they do exist and are usually the same ones having to beg for business all day long.  

Posted By: BiancaJaguar
 
   
Posted By: inicky46
So why is four a deal-breaker?
 I do not ask for 3 references and still consider myself pretty damn smart....  
 BJ

SoftlySarah See my TER Reviews 254 reads
posted
10 / 12
Re: No response from ladies. (A question for the ladies)

Hmmm... Sounds a little unprofessional, but for 3 well-reviewed ladies maybe there is a good reason. Have you checked their websites to see if you may have included information that was not kosher- like graphic words or requests for things that might make someone nervous? I never answer emails when someone includes certain things.  

Posted By: roseman1
In response to three active advertising independent providers I recently supplied screening information via email, exactly as requested by each provider.  Screening information was provided just before or at the start of their local area tours.  Having received no reply within two days, I followed up with a courteous email to each of the three providers, but again received no response.  
   
 So with interest in reading the previous posting from a provider, is it common to not receive any provider feedback because not all ladies "have the time to respond in a timely manner'?  Or no response within a month (as in my case after reaching out to three providers) with at least some words saying, "Sorry I missed you; I'll catch you on the next tour. . ."  
   
 Human nature dictates that one would be much less inclined to consider a rendezvous with these providers for any of their future tours.  
   
 Can any ladies share any insight into this phenomenon?  The non-responses seem unusual. None of the emails were rejected BTW.

inicky46 61 Reviews 370 reads
posted
11 / 12
Re: Lots girls (the smart ones) require three refs.

Wasn't meaning to imply you're not smart.  Perhaps you are, perhaps not.  But, just to elaborate, there are lots of different ways girls screen and the number of references isn't the be-all and end-all. A guy could provide employer info, or have a bunch of OKs on P411 and Date-Check, for example. Or white lists here.  Or, if he's a reviewer, you can check with the gals who've reviewed him.  And so on.

Back_In_Black 420 reads
posted
12 / 12
the answers easy, so the review can be controlled ! hence all

The 10/10 talk lately ! Yup it really is that simple. L8r.

But devin plays fair . Yeah u do ! Others should be more like her . Even though she's mean 2me.
Posted By: Monk69
I contacted a well-reviewed provider off of an Eros ad this week and she asked me for four (!) references. Really? That was in addition to employer info.  
   
 I'm as sensitive to the need for screening as the next guy, but there has to be a limit. Either you trust a reference, or not.  
   
 I tend to see a lot of UTR providers, so this just doesn't work for me. But, beyond that, if you really think about it, asking for four references means you're asking to see hobbyists who are regular players—guys who are seeing quite a few providers a month. Which, I would argue, isn't necessarily the safest way of going about your business in the first place.

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