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Re: No response from ladies. (A question for the ladies)
SoftlySarah See my TER Reviews 253 reads
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Hmmm... Sounds a little unprofessional, but for 3 well-reviewed ladies maybe there is a good reason. Have you checked their websites to see if you may have included information that was not kosher- like graphic words or requests for things that might make someone nervous? I never answer emails when someone includes certain things.  

Posted By: roseman1
In response to three active advertising independent providers I recently supplied screening information via email, exactly as requested by each provider.  Screening information was provided just before or at the start of their local area tours.  Having received no reply within two days, I followed up with a courteous email to each of the three providers, but again received no response.  
   
 So with interest in reading the previous posting from a provider, is it common to not receive any provider feedback because not all ladies "have the time to respond in a timely manner'?  Or no response within a month (as in my case after reaching out to three providers) with at least some words saying, "Sorry I missed you; I'll catch you on the next tour. . ."  
   
 Human nature dictates that one would be much less inclined to consider a rendezvous with these providers for any of their future tours.  
   
 Can any ladies share any insight into this phenomenon?  The non-responses seem unusual. None of the emails were rejected BTW.

Monk69815 reads

I contacted a well-reviewed provider off of an Eros ad this week and she asked me for four (!) references. Really? That was in addition to employer info.

I'm as sensitive to the need for screening as the next guy, but there has to be a limit. Either you trust a reference, or not.  

I tend to see a lot of UTR providers, so this just doesn't work for me. But, beyond that, if you really think about it, asking for four references means you're asking to see hobbyists who are regular players—guys who are seeing quite a few providers a month. Which, I would argue, isn't necessarily the safest way of going about your business in the first place.

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BiancaJaguar444 reads

That is a lot...I ask for 2...but i will take one if thats all they can give me...+ the rest..name...etc
We all have our method of screening...if one doesn,t do it...I'm sure another one will ;)
BJ xxx

Related Link: http://www.biancajaguar.com/

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Posted By: Monk69
I contacted a well-reviewed provider off of an Eros ad this week and she asked me for four (!) references. Really? That was in addition to employer info.  
   
 I'm as sensitive to the need for screening as the next guy, but there has to be a limit. Either you trust a reference, or not.  
   
 I tend to see a lot of UTR providers, so this just doesn't work for me. But, beyond that, if you really think about it, asking for four references means you're asking to see hobbyists who are regular players—guys who are seeing quite a few providers a month. Which, I would argue, isn't necessarily the safest way of going about your business in the first place.

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nycad384 reads

The provider has the right of refusal if you don't follow their screening. If you're not happy with that, there's plenty of other opportunities.  

Cheers!

-nycad

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inicky46318 reads

So why is four a deal-breaker?

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BiancaJaguar454 reads

Posted By: inicky46
So why is four a deal-breaker?
I do not ask for 3 references and still consider myself pretty damn smart....
BJ
Related Link: http://www.biancajaguar.com/

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toofuckingstupid395 reads

providers who are lax on screening scream desperate for money to me and put others at risk. not saying that's you, but they do exist and are usually the same ones having to beg for business all day long.  

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Posted By: inicky46
So why is four a deal-breaker?
 I do not ask for 3 references and still consider myself pretty damn smart....  
 BJ

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inicky46369 reads

Wasn't meaning to imply you're not smart.  Perhaps you are, perhaps not.  But, just to elaborate, there are lots of different ways girls screen and the number of references isn't the be-all and end-all. A guy could provide employer info, or have a bunch of OKs on P411 and Date-Check, for example. Or white lists here.  Or, if he's a reviewer, you can check with the gals who've reviewed him.  And so on.

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Back_In_Black418 reads

The 10/10 talk lately ! Yup it really is that simple. L8r.

But devin plays fair . Yeah u do ! Others should be more like her . Even though she's mean 2me.

Posted By: Monk69
I contacted a well-reviewed provider off of an Eros ad this week and she asked me for four (!) references. Really? That was in addition to employer info.  
   
 I'm as sensitive to the need for screening as the next guy, but there has to be a limit. Either you trust a reference, or not.  
   
 I tend to see a lot of UTR providers, so this just doesn't work for me. But, beyond that, if you really think about it, asking for four references means you're asking to see hobbyists who are regular players—guys who are seeing quite a few providers a month. Which, I would argue, isn't necessarily the safest way of going about your business in the first place.

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