The top 3 things men look for,  like or expect when meeting a provider?

I think guys look for a 1)relaxed, 2)welcoming, 3) up for most things (should be defined in posts).

Guys Ideas of beauty are so veritable that it is up to the guy to choose someone who fits his sexy map.

Ideally for me it would start with a connection, there would be good chemistry and mutual enjoyment. Like you're with the love of your life, without any relationship drama.

i look for hot, menu and attitude

1. No drama - Nobody wants to deal with any drama at all.

2. Fun attitude - You want a lady to be fun and smile and be into to you and while she has her boundaries just to say that she is not into that.  

3. Good personal hygiene - This is something both people want i always shower and try to make sure their are no bad odors, you hope that the lady does the same before your visit.

 
Physical stuff does not matter if the provider accurately provided an image of her or description. Nobody wants a bait and switch in which the girl on the add is hot and then when they open the door, the girl there is not

A woman who has a great smile, enthusiastic and cheerful personality, and toned body. And it might seem trivial---but I always look at a woman's hands and feet as a guide to how meticulous she is about her appearance---well manicured and polished hands and feet are a huge turn on!! Finally, she has to GENUINELY love sex!!

Don't reach for your phone every 5 minutes to check your texts, at least try to make a connection and don't be a clock watcher.

I like friendly, open and sexy but the one thing that can set the tone from the start is business etiquette.   Sometimes, setting up a date feels like work and that puts a damper on things.  It is really appreciated when the lady replies promptly and generally has her affairs in order, is punctual, etc. (I am sure the ladies appreciate the same thing from the guys)

Man wants to be pampered, surprised in a good way and have a good time!

Also that he being said That he ne sais quoi feeling as you walk in the door...smile is always good too...