I tried to post this the other day and included the providers details, but the post was rejected as "shill," so I'm leaving the provider's details out this time.  There is a very busty/attractive provider who, although I've never seen in person, I am very interested in seeing.  Her home base is southern Cali, and she sometimes travels to Chicago, but doesn't make it to NYC.  I reached out to her via TER, and she essentially replied that she would come here if she knew she would have sufficient business.  I mentioned that I'm sure if she came, many on this site would be interested, but I think it would help if she could be assured of this.

Again, to show that this isn't "shilling," I have never seen this provider so I cannot vouch for her or review her.  If anyone has any suggestions how to get this done without it being deemed "shilling," please advise.

I have heard from many women that touring in NY is a big problem because of all the guys that express interest in advance and then don't schedule, or who book and then cancel.  

If you want this woman to come to New York, then your best bet is to pay for her to do so.

One way you could try what you are doing without shilling would be to ask her to post her own ad.  
"Thinking of coming to NYC.  Here is my web site and here is a link to my reviews...  I need x number of guys to book in advance, with a deposit, for me to make the trip.  Please contact me if interested."    

Something like that

Most ladies offer custom travel dates. If you want to see her that badly, you'll have to pay for her flight, lodging, meals, and the date. Most ladies who travel have a time minimum required.

Or, you can fly to her in LA or Chicago

Flying from California to New York takes pretty much the whole day from getting to the airport, boarding, the ~5 hour flight, arriving, cabbing to Manhattan, etc. Don't forget the jetlag kicking in! :P It's not easy to organize and plan a tour, especially traveling cross country so I understand her wanting to get her time's worth after the hotel, plane ticket, food, etc expenses. Ive been asked repeatedly to visit certain states only for the gentleman to book only an hour after repeated emails when I finally decided to visit. :|

If you want to see her so much, pay for a travel date and have her come to you! Or fly to California to see her or see her when she's in Chicago. Those are my favorite dates and make the long trip very worth it

Thanks for the replies, and yes, I am well aware of the possibility of paying a provider to travel, and the ability to fly myself.  However, my intention was to generate enough support that would warrant her traveling to NY.  I'm not in a position, or desperate enough to fly and put her up here or fly to the west coast for the sole purpose of visiting a provider.  At least not yet.

If a woman comes here, and then guys don't turn out to see her, the trip will cost her money.  In NYC, that could be a lot of money.  Airfare and hotel.  Easily a couple thousand, plus the lost income from her regulars back home.

If you convince a woman that she should make the tour, you are risking being the cause of that loss.  Do you really want to get involved in that?

Most women who have been in the business for a while know better than to book a tour on the promise of potential customers, but some may be new to touring and you could really be causing them a big hardship.

The smartest thing you can do is pay for someone to come visit you, or wait for her to decide to tour on her own.  Maybe make a promise to her that if she ever does tour to NYC you would be willing to send her a deposit to ensure at least 1 client.  The cash in hand from 1 person may inspire her to take a shot, or ask for deposits from enough other guys to make the tour happen.

But other than that, you are just setting yourself up for trouble by trying to get her to make such a risky business move.

I've just got to be wondering about her curves and the bell curve.  

Is the best LA Brain Surgeon 2-sigmas better than the best NYC Brain Surgeon?  
Is the best LA car guy 2-sigmas better than the best NYC car guy?
Is the best LA lawyer 2-sigmas better than the best NYC lawyer?  
Is the best LA weathergirl 2-sigmas better than the best NYC weathergirl?

Is this LA Provider so much better than NYC's local and touring talent? You can't find busty in NYC?  

You have set your expectations from this woman at a very, very high level. That could work, but it could also blow up from either end: the slightest flaw affecting her performance will be MUCH more disappointing to you OR, you are so infatuated, that she gets a 10+++ just by showing up, regardless of performance.

As Erin said, just go meet her in Chicago

...build "tours" around said invitations; with the gentleman's knowledge.  The gentleman whom invited me, will always be my first date, and we split airfare.  I always book my own hotel, should I stay on.  I do not do this each, and every time I receive a private invitation; it depends on the city.  

Warm regards,
Kell

Thank you for your thoughtful, eloquent, and responsive reply.

In hindsight, I regret posting this thread as my intentions have been either misconstrued or exaggerated, which is likely my fault for not expressing them with sufficient clarity.

1.  My interest in seeing this particular provider is just that - a mere interest, and falls far short of going to the extent of traveling across the country or paying for her trip and stay.  As one member commented, there are ample busty providers here in NYC to satisfy my boob obsession.  That being said, this particular provider is well known in the cyber boob-obsessed forum, so much so that there are blogs and forum threads dedicated to he where its clear that her actual availability and services are unknown to those obsessing over her proportions.  In short, this ain't just your run-of-the-mill busty vixen.

2.  Am I alone here in in seeing traveling providers?  Is it not common for members to post in their reviews something along the lines of: "had a great time, can't wait for her next visit to...."  I read it all the time.  Does that mean that if the provider stopped visiting the members particular city, they would all then fly to see her or pay for her travels?  Sure she would be missed, but in most cases, it would end with just that.  

3. Knowing that she at one time visited our city, is it so crazy and obsessed of me to try show her that there is substantial interest, apart from myself, in her returning to NYC for a visit?  That was my only intention.  Not to give the provider false hopes and take responsibility for her failed visit, but to show her that there is interest beyond myself, which I can clearly see is not the case.  So again, in hindsight, my plan failed.  I initially assumed that more NYC members would share my interest in seeing this West Coast provider here on the East Coast, and if so, it would be great for her to make the trip knowing the trip would be fruitful.  But clearly I did not pique the interest I initially assumed this post would.  

Thank you all for the replies.

Really, so it's "crazy and obsessed" to send a single message to a provider, that used to visit my city but hasn't in a while, and inquire whether they have any future plans on visiting?   And then see, with a single post here, if any one else shares my sentiments?  Then I guess your right,  I should "shut the eff up already" with my fantasy.  

Alright, I'm done with this thread.  For some reason it's generating hostility, which couldn't be further from its purpose.

From the initial post...

"I reached out to her via TER, and she essentially replied that she would come here if she knew she would have sufficient business.  I mentioned that I'm sure if she came, many on this site would be interested,"

He reached out to her to request that she come to NYC.
She replied.
He "mentioned" that if she came many would be interested."  

Unless it was mentioned telepathically, it was more than just 1 email.  

That said, if the lady being communicated with didn't mind, then it doesn't really matter.  However, saying many on this site would be interested?  That's not something within his power to promise.  It's just a lure to get her to come.

However, I have to disagree that "One email that isn't a booking request is definitely one email too many".  I don't see anything wrong about 1 message asking "Do you think you'll ever tour to my area."  Especially since it was in the hopes of making a booking.  It's the trying to convince someone to travel that becomes the problem.

I see travelling ladies all the time.  PM who she is and i might agree to see her if she comes to nyc

Thank you for your civil, non-douchy response.  Shame you're the exception rather than the rule.  Just pm'd you.