Well, it's a few years later, and I'm still not "experienced" so to speak. I've hooked up with a few civilian girls, but nothing ever happened with them. I'm beginning to think that they may have sensed my lack of either confidence or experience, so I think I'm going to finally bite the bullet, and seek professional help.
I'm not sure what it is, it may be my social anxiety which I thought I had under control, or something else, but I've come to the conclusion that it's time.
I'm going to bite the bullet and get it done.
I have a confession to make, I'm a virgin. I'm not a bad looking guy, I'm actually rather atletic, but I'm very shy around women. I'm wondering is anyone had any advice, or if there were any providers out there who would consider deflouring a 27 year old virgin?
I'm actually a really nice guy who recently returned to College. I'm a hockey player and nobody knows my secret. I'm not really embarassed about it but it does hold me back a little so I would like to remedy the situation.
I'm wondering if there are any providers around the NY/NJ area what would be willing to show me the ropes? I'm a really sweet guy, just extremely shy about sex. I really could use an experenced lady to show me how it is done.
I would love to hear from any ladies out there who would consider assisting me.
Jonathan
Um. I'm not technically a virgin, of course, since I've seen I mean, probably in the hundreds of escorts. But, I really think of myself as a virgin, since I've never had sex outside the hobby. So. My advice to you, would be to use the hobby if it gets your confidence up, but, try to start dating women as soon as possible. You're 27... It's still easy (I think) at that age to meet women, I'll tell you it's a hell of a lot harder if you love the hobby during those years, and then it's ten years later, and now, you're still just as "shy" or not confident regarding civvy women. Are you like me? Have there been close moments with regular women, that you've avoided, because you're afraid of how she'll judge your sexual performance? I feel exactly the same way as I did ten years ago as I do now. I discount all the experience I have in the hobby when I'm seeing someone who isn't an escort. (And, I really don't think I'm wrong to do so...)
Hey Nearly 40. My experence with regular women is extremely minimal. I have had them intrested in me it's just that I can never make "that" move. It really has nothing to do with any possible judgement about my potential performance, just having the experence itself. It has much more to do with close interpersonal contact.
As I described earlier, I'm actually a good looking guy, athletic, 6'3 with a few extra pounds topping me off at around 240. I play sports for my College, not a high profile one, but one which receives a decent amount of support from the school. This also brings me to another issue, I didn't return to College until I was in my mid 20's. The girls who I do know well I consider way too young for me. I may have an age fixation. I was turned down by a 19 year old for just that reason. Nice girl, just my type, was intrested in my 21 year old friend.
Actually, one who I came close with is my best friends sister who is only a year younger than I, and another would be a lady I met in class who is one year older but I have now lost contact with due to graduation.
I have gotten almost all the way there, having done quite a bit with willing participants, I'm just lost currently. I really need someone willing to hold my hand and show me the ropes. I can learn anything.
I have prospects on the horizon, I'm just getting scared that it'll never happen.
I'm basically just looking for that first experence. The touch of her skin, the way her hips react to my touch, the look that says "come get me". I want to experence all I can, I need to feel wanted by someone else.
My user ID is actually the exact same one I have listed above, JPdumont. I'd love to hear who might be interested.
This almost sounds like a poem.
JP,
I'm sure there are many lovely ladies here who would love to meet you.
Please give everyone a little more info on the type of lady you would like to meet..I'm sure that will make it easier to make suggestions for you and for the ladies to contact you.
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Good Luck!
xoxoxo
Cookie
I was in a similar position you were in two years ago, a 26 year old virgin contemplating losing it to an escort. Long story short I bit the bullet and lost my virginity to an escort. She was extremely hot, however I was so nervous that my first time did not really meet my expectations. After that I was with about 7-8 AMP girls and really have not had too much luck with the ladies. If I had it over to do again I don't think I would have lost my viginity to an escort. Of course the decision is up to you, but if you do decide to be with an escort make sure you you don't become addicted to them.
Well, it's a few years later, and I'm still not "experienced" so to speak. I've hooked up with a few civilian girls, but nothing ever happened with them. I'm beginning to think that they may have sensed my lack of either confidence or experience, so I think I'm going to finally bite the bullet, and seek professional help.
I'm not sure what it is, it may be my social anxiety which I thought I had under control, or something else, but I've come to the conclusion that it's time.
I'm going to bite the bullet and get it done.
I still had this post in the back of my head the past few years. Around 2011 I finally lost my V card. I met a lovely girl during a friend's bachelor party and finally had sex. It was fun, but didn't amount to anything. I didn't have sex again until the spring of 2014 when a friend convinced me to try online dating again, and I proceeded to clean up. I slept with 10 different women before deciding to date the woman who became my wife.
My confidence was in the toilet, and then suddenly was not. I wish I figured this out years beforehand, but I just didn't. Finally it became my time to have a good time, and I really did!
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The original post was from 17 years ago, damm!
I wonder if he lost his virginity yet haha!
I personally love providing services to virgins, I try my best to make it as Romantic and enjoyable as possible.. while teaching them a few tricks. Virgins are always lovely to me as well.
I still had this post in the back of my head the past few years. Around 2011 I finally lost my V card. I met a lovely girl during a friend's bachelor party and finally had sex. It was fun, but didn't amount to anything. I didn't have sex again until the spring of 2014 when a friend convinced me to try online dating again, and I proceeded to clean up. I slept with 10 different women before deciding to date the woman who became my wife.
My confidence was in the toilet, and then suddenly was not. I wish I figured this out years beforehand, but I just didn't. Finally it became my time to have a good time, and I really did!
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You are wonderful Kiki,
Things are ok. My wife isn't into sex nearly as much as I am. I'm not quite sure what to do about that. If you ever get to New York maybe we can meet up Kiki. My family is amazing, but I have a libido which is different from my wife.
Well, if you've not had discussions with her about your differring needs that might be a good idea. But if you're not sure how to start that conversation, or if it might cause real problems at home it's difficult. But as others here will tell you divorse, especially without a good pre nupt, is probably more painful.
You may end up still having to play games, and perhaps feel bad/guilty about cheating, but I'd at least consider looking for a mutually acceptable and fair solution to keep the family intact. Divorce is also really hard on the kids.
It's kind of fun to read this after all these years. I have a child now, she's almost 4. Once I met my wife we had a ton of sex, but it was incredibly vanilla. She's sucked my dick only a handful of times. I've eaten her pussy quite a bit, and I like it to be honest, but we are pretty vanilla. I kind of just want to fuck someone else, lick pussy, maybe pound ass. It's hard to figure this shit out. I'm trying to explore my sexuality late, and that's ok, but it's also weird as fuck.
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