As the older members of TER might remember my relationship with Elizabeth Love. We got quite attached to each other that I became her boyfriend. I came close to breaking up my marriage. What say you?  

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i rarely see the same provider more than once

Well you seem to know. Yep it was like puppy love as to whether she loved me is for me to know. I only bring this up to make my buds out there careful about their emotions. Keep your private life separate from your hobbying.
Yes of course I know who you are and your previous handle. I remember we were friends in those days. What happened to make you so mean??

why the meanness?

You need a dose of reality. Elizabeth Love was never in love with you. You were an old john who she used as an ATM. Your "I love you Elizabeth" posts 3 days a week on the NY board were so embarrassing  that the Mod at the time had to change the board rules to keep you from making a fool of yourself any further. There was another old  hobbyist on the board at that time that thought Ashley Taylor and Legendary Jill were in love with him. You guys were embarrassments to the board and the hobby. Elizabeth Love married a young dude and got out of this biz. She never had any interest in you other than as a wallet and you are/were 35 years or more older than her.  I'm not being cruel, and have nothing against you personally whatsoever, but coming on the board rehashing your old "Elizabeth loves me" posts is once again embarrassing to you.  You need to take a reality check and look in the mirror.  Or you can go drinking with the old fat fart that thought Ashley Taylor and Legendary Jill loved him.  You two could  kid yourselves telling stories, and catch a buzz. BTW, I know he sees a shrink. You should too.

Relationships sometimes happen.  No need to be dickish about it.  Unless your life personally was affected by this, who cares?

You can make the point without the venom.

What a waste of space on this board.  You have your memories.  Enjoy them. Now move on.

I never paid Elizabeth 1 dime after a second time together. I am friends  with her to this date on Facebook. We chat regularly. Neither of us regret the good times we have had together. I wouldn't change 1 thing. I feel so sorry that all the girls you see charge you double. I have the good fortune to see girls on a repeat basis where they feel comfortable with me  to give me their personal cell no. So we can text.
Any other comments you'd like to make. Oh I have a suggestion. Change you handle to "Shitstirrer". It fits to the sick motherfucker that you really are.

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I guess if you believe that BS then all is well in your head.

Damn,
There's a lot of hating going on. People need to lighten up. People become a little looney with love sometimes, but absolutely no one knows the personal dynamics between two individuals - except those two individuals. I've often wondered that myself. What happens if something occurs and how often does that happen?

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SM: Given your anger level it would appear that you fought in Nam and suffer from PTSD. Many guys I knew there did. But given your overall ignorance on this board, you wouldn't have survived in country a week, so you are just a moron who prefers slander to brotherhood. I saw guys similar to you talk the talk and then collapse under their own weight. Your knowledge of the hobby, the players and this board is pitiful, as is your approach. Attacking board members for being old is pathetic. I'm old. Want to engage in debate or in person? My guess is "no." You are the loser, not BuddyM.

What I'm going to do is answer Buddy's original question, DO NOT BUST UP YOUR MARRIAGE FOR A RELATIONSHIP WITH A PROVIDER, OR ANY OTHER WOMAN FOR THAT MATTER. Guys a little piece of advice, don't break up with your wife to be with someone else, at least 90% of the time it doesn't work out with civvies, and I'm guessing 99% with escorts.  Sorry ladies, no offense intended. If you're going to end your marriage, separate first and try going on a few dates with age appropriate, non sex worker women. And. unless you want to spend the rest of your life on an escort board for your social life, don't get used to three appointments a week, you'll be doing it for the rest of your life or until your money runs out.

Just thought I would add my voice to the chorus.

Buddym, I don't know you from Adam but the hostility toward you seems ridiculously retarded to me.

As for the larger issue, the naive ones are those who think that people with some kind of pathology about sex (meaning all of us and all the girls in this world), won't ever develop a connection.  Really?  The crazy people will never be inexorably drawn to one another?  That's just stupid--of course it happens.  Does anyone really think all that nakedness, physical closeness, time alone together, and sex can't ever trigger anything because there is cash involved?  Get a grip.  (Plus, I am a divorced 39-year old professional with a nice apartment and a full range of social skills.  I actually CAN and do get laid, non-retail.  Not bragging at all--just saying that not everyone on the consuming end of this business is a 70 year old troll.  So yes, every once in a while, a girl comes out of her shell a little as she feels genuine attraction.)

Right now, I have a "relationship" with an escort.  Not a "real" one, of course.  But we transitioned from straight up $X for the hour, to that same $X to hang for a few hours drinking and banging, to grabbing  drink, maybe getting some take-out at my place, loads of sex, and then no cash transfer, just a "hey, help me cover my rent, cable, whatever?"  

Of course, I would NEVER let this go anyplace.  I am no fool.  But it is fun and pleasant and I like her company and consider her a friend--kind of like someone you do business with can be a "friend," but you would never see one another again if the transactions stopped.

Good advice.  

I have seen this with a friend--the post-divorce Freedom Fest was razy and awesome.  But it was followed by a few years of probably 100+ sessions a year, substituting for the real deal.  Using most of his vacation time to take a coupe of escorts out of town.  (Yeah, a weekend in Miami getting double-teamed sounds fucking great--but we're talking about nearly all his vaca time.)  That shit got f'ing DEPRESSING.  

This activity needs to be an indulgence--retail pussy is an excellent scotch, not a carton of cigs.  Nobody drinks Johnny Blue all day every day.  Once in a while you hook yourself up and savor it.  But people gag down cigs all day every day, and eventually need them instead of enjoying them.  That's the risk.

That's all I was trying to say. But then this fuck Silicinmister thought he would had a field day with me. Thanks guys.

Years ago with a certain pornstar Lacey D. I use to see her before she became a porn star or just when she started. She was in a playboy issue and things just took off for her. She use to watch my malibu beach house when I was on the east coast. I cut all strings with all providers and women when I was married, but shortly after my wife passed I received a nice letter from her.  Both of us have two kids each and I don't view her as I did in the past. More like a sister thing I guess. I believe her reviews are still on this site under her provider name.  I posted a long thread more than a year ago on another site. Sort of sorry about that info because it states her real age. lol  I use to see many porn stars and Jada Fire was another that became a friend in the old days. I remember her before porn when she was a sex phone girl.

Sexy Toni... Chloe Wilde/Sage from SD...Piper from AZ...Chiara Delano...Victoria Von Helkine....and of course, Octavia.  Not to forget Samantha from MN...LB, nor my old friends Kendall, Sharon, Michelle... across the universe!  

That enough, Buddy?  There's more...this is what happens when you know how to hobby!