I have just been asked to provide some very personal information before meeting a provider for the first time. I have explained that I am WL here, but she insists on additional information.. Fair enough

I respect her criteria and offered other methods to get me screened, but it appears no such luck

Although she is well respected in the community, I am not comfortable giving out lot's of personal stuff which could end up in the wrong hands

Thoughts?

Let me ask as well-- gents how many of you provide work and personal info...

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1. This discussion could be (and has been) had on the newbie and GD boards.
2. WL for the most part doesn't mean shit. At most it's a secondary means of verification. Emphasis on "secondary."
3. You're entitled to feel nervous about giving up personal info. At the same time, she is entitled to screen the way she wants. If you can't reconcile these, you have to move on. Plenty of providers who will screen through ter handle, p411 and DC, and provider references, which i'd expect you have.  

This is all pretty straightforward and you don't look like a newbie. Why are you asking then? Is there something important we're missing?

Thanks ADJ
I suppose I am just expressing my frustration- Perhaps fortunate, but have never been asked to offer personal information. I had a bad experience once and choose not to repeat. TER WL usually gets me by.
Yes, you are correct-- There are plenty of providers available and I have references. Had my hopes on seeing this gal, but respect her screening criteria
What I was also curious about- How many of you DO give out personal information?  

(Apologies in advance if the post should go on the GD/Newbie board)

Thanks all

I have a bunch of WL references and 99% of the time if I provide my TER handle my first name my cell # and as many references as they want I pass screening so if I had to give more I would move on unless you have some really special reason to see the provider.  The kind of info she seems to want is simply too risky to give up IMHO.

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Because most guys ASK the girl for a WL, and she might feel cornered into saying yes.  

If I do take a WL, I'll actually contact the girls who gave it and ask them if there's anything I should know before accepting an appt with said gentleman. It's not enough to see the girl's name listed there, because you never know what went on behind the scenes.

Some girls/agencies seem to WL EVERYBODY. So their WL doesn't count for sh**.  

With that said, if you're not comfortable giving up personal info, then don't do it...but quit kvetching and move on. Just find someone who will see you with WL/references.

But I am not fully familiar and hear horror stores recently..two men contacted me wanting bareback and they claim they are white Listed….so not sounding credible what ever it is lo

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The only risk is a  strange man in a vulnerable woman's hotel room with no escape or protection

 
Make things easy and provide her with a lady who can give you a reference

so simple

More than willing to do that, but in her opinion, that is not enough

Come on!  There have been a dozen threads on this topic across the boards in the last couple of months alone.  If you don't want to give all your personal info, like most of us, then move on.  P411 Okays and/or references are usually fine..  As was said in the thread just below this, WLs don't mean shit and most providers could care less how many you have...  Use Date Check, P411 and give a couple of provider references.  Hopefully that will do the trick.  If she still wants your personal info, and you are not comfortable, move on!

experiences wit someone with over  20 white lists

 It is ADULT area which is not regulated by any laws  
 even TER  makes efforts keep it decent in conformity with ... laws and oral of this hobby  
 but what are those laws and morals?
 here and pimps and dishonest people and simply fake accounts ..
 what to expect ?
 then I will share .. when he tells me he has DOZENZ WL for me it be raither turn off then turn on ..
 money should be turn on a ?? not always
 sometime  girl he use as a reference gave out such details which for me is red flags but for her may be was just fine ..
 Woman who charges over 800 always will use own mind to screen and gentlemen who donates over 800
 also using own judgment  
If some truly believes that  call girls  worth and can earn more then 400  and whitelists are ONLY one possible way of screening real gentlemen .. those are mistaken  deeply ...
Here a lot .. lot  lot .. bad low calber people .. yes white listed .. yet  requesting bare services as morons for 400 .. as  woman would  not know that he possible have been with lowest possible may be back page girls bare .. yak ... and yes those are white listed .. clean , normal gentlemen who is not so juch in hobby he even would not have one white list .
  THE BEST on my list have  - no more then  1- 4 or non at all  so what ?? are they not a males with balls and money  and heart and needs and fantasy ??? OOOOO Boy .. you do  not know you do not know how good they are  
 kisses to al

If you don't trust her, then move on.  Simple as that.

only keeping it SAfe