I have been kinda in the hobby in NYC for a bit but I have stuck mostly to AMPs, GC, and Jewels.  I have been burned a couple times and mostly in queens (where I live).  I am seeing Koreanna this week which is great because she has been on my radar for some time.  I am really just looking for a ATF that I can actually see on a continued basis but I have yet to find one that did not either A connect or B had an issue I could not look past. I pose a question to both clients and providers what do signs do you look for in posts/ads/websites that either ding as a no go or a good time?   I have managed to get a good recomendations on P411 now I am shooting for TER whitelist.

It's reviews that are key when seeking to meet with a lady for the first time.  

Have fun with the lady you mentioned later this week.  Personally, I'm heading to Vegas in a couple of days, which is where the action will be this weekend!

I feel also having a conversation prior to meeting might help the initial ice breaking.  I get so nervous when I first meet a provider, studdering, rambling, fool.