The things I am looking for no pain, teasing, edging, dirty talk, telling me how to please you, being restrained while you please and tease me.

at theartofsubmission.com   Their pitch is submissives, but most are switches and some are dommes.  About all are long-term providers and most are quite attractive; rates are reasonable; and they have a nifty incall in the East Village.  Video depends on the provider.     PM if you want more specifics. (not a lot, but some)

Opal allows filming for an extra fee, shes more submissive but can switch.

I’m available to travel upon request. Maybe you travel out West…

Check out my site and let me know if you think we would be a match. ◡̈