I have another query for all the hobbyists and providers out there. I have seen one woman a couple of times now and she is very quickly becoming my ATF. There is just one problem when it comes to her kissing. Now don't get me wrong I love the way she kisses, it's very passionate and amazing. But there is one thing she does that throws me off sometimes. Would it be rude to ask her to change the way she kisses or should I just suck it up and deal with it? The only reason I ask is because I want to create a "relationship" that will last awhile but I don't want to ruin the progress that we have made already. Any thoughts or comments would be appreciated.

Thanks again

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But, the way she views it will depend on the way you tell her. I mean, if bad breath were an issue, that'd be another story.

You should tell her.  If she's a good provider, then she will have no problem changing to make you happy.

YOU are paying HER for a service. This is her business, I am sure she would rather hear the change request then lose a good customer. Its just business, its not personal. Just word what your request is in a polite manner. I am sure you have seen her several times at this point and have built some sort of relaxed atmosphere by now.

" hey, I want to try kissing like this, I have been thinking about what it would be like to kiss you like this."

If its her breath, and its an outcall to you, just leave mouth wash out and 2 plastic cups and you use it, and then say " hey want some?" I am sure she will take the hint and noones feelings her hurt.

I doubt any good businessw woman in this business would take offense.

I am sure if you prefix it with how she is someone you want to have a see regularly and how much you enjoy her kissing.  You may also not be the only one that is thrown off by it.  But as the others have advised, do it with tact and in the guise of trying something different.  Good Luck

And demonstrate that.

negative .. but  dear . woman who  does not feel you after few times... you met  her.. who not feel ways you want it .. it is just selfish and not responsive ....  not good not good ..  it takes two to tango ..it is soo wrong in nature question - should I adjust ?? you lovers  should feel each other .. specially if you call her ATF ,,

say it, just be a gent a bout it and she will be fine!

Serena Vincente x

You know what you like. It is very important that you enjoy your date as much as possible.

Just be polite when saying it and it will be just fine.

and I would not say from hobby I would say about how it was with my husband  now ex husband .... He marry me because he said sex he had with me was  the best he had so it  was one of major factor  he decide to marry  me  but when we met  first time- and kissed - kiss was not there .. !!!
I do kiss passion and hot closing eyes looking at his eyes .. many different ways .. his lips was as ..if he afraid to open them and licking  a bit my lips there and here ..  ..
first kiss was .. not my and made me soooo irritated and wanting  scream him back - what is wrong with you man ??!!! but I knew before as well- first time it may be different .. so  he was nice to me .. his dick was amazing and  i was thinking I will teach him kiss more passional y with time .. and he will  feel me and adjust to me as I was adjusting to him ...... nope.. time went by .. we were married already - he was just really nice to me really  as  man who want  give you all his life and what he has .. but he was kissing me with dead lips while cock was .. amazing !!! so he never adjusted .. we argued often .. he asked me often what do you want - amazing husband or amazing kiss .... he did not belived to all what we saw on porno mivies - he said - it is just .. acters.. they take many  dubles  and they are acting.. they do not enjoy it as they  show it .. no one can do it as they do soo long and with so erection .. and women all are faking this passion ..I wanted to cry ..
yes .. as he was nice and always pointe me that I need pick between "good husband" and "good sex" ha ha  with 2 kids I was staying in family ..
but as you can guess not for long as soon as I was able go myself - I left him  good husband .. who gave me 2  wonderful kids  but  has a temper of dead fish.
You know ..in escorting  and being now expierenced woman and be able to satisfy myself now no matter if he kiss correct or not .. if his dick long enough or not or if he can use it or not
( now I  just will gush squirt  laying down on the floor with  man standing toll  above me masturbating on my open legs .. and  woowow .. I am there already ... but back then i was not that way even I was above average drive and needs i expected man to get me there  to orgasms .. now in hobby  I  when I donated well ..I  adjust to any kiss ..I just feel him  any style of love making ..
and I di learn love more personality then dicks ..
while I still coming across  as  crazy porno star with non human sex abilities .. I now more in to personality ..  so older men.. do not worry ..  here are many women as I am - and we do fell you and we do adjust to you and we be not kissing you way you would not love over and over and over again .. it is .. sorry young girls -- but  ..it is .. ha ha ha young women  style
we are still young and hot looking but we  women over 35.. we are .. have fire in pants and  spark in mind
yours