So, I am still familiarizing myself with the provider/hobbyists community here in New York and surrounding areas. I've met some wonderful gentlemen here on the East Coast so far and I am wondering where other than the above mentioned, does our community mingle and connect online?

  Also, as far as ettiquette in the fbsm world goes, every city is different. Vegas a world different than California and California different than N.Y. I appreciate all of the uniqueness that comes with different territories. In terms of screening, especiallly, the methods vary. Also... the expectations in a fbsm session seem to be totally different in different places. Just curious so feel free to vent or give input  

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Alexa

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The community here is fractured on-line, but we do occasionally have M&G's where we all meet, party, and it's generally cool. It is similar in Vegas...different folks, but same attitude and atmosphere overall.  Same in LA...

hank you for your reply.

The difference that I've seen in vegas vs s.f/bay area is in the way ladies market and deliver as a general rule. I've worked with other independent girls and agaencies in Vegas and it was a bit differemt than the bay. Vegas is just a difderent beast. Love both places!

I haven't been n in N.Y. long enough to make a solid assessment of the actual difference in the attitudes of gentlemen and providers in regards to fbsm. So, mostly I am asking the local community what general expectations are, as they may or may not be different. An example is the time factor, I have had plenty of half hour inquiries and I get it, people are super busy and there is so much to do and get done here. Rarely if ever have I recieved such inquiries before.
 
Venting not in regards to TER or P411 but just providers and gentleman alike seeing things that could be improved: seamlessness of other marketing sites, attitudes of providers, boundary pushers etc.  

Meet and greets sound awesome. I will certainly begin to look into that. I'd like to meet more providers and gentlemen of course.

Thank you again for your imput and my appologies if my wording in the o.p. was a bit confusing.

I have been well recieved since my arrival to the East Coast and very fortunate to have met some amazing men. It is in my curious nature to understand and improve, always, is all
Just trying to learn the scene of FBSM as it is in this amazing city!

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