I caught "the clap" from a provider in the 60's who had steller
reviews.I'm on treatment now and on my way to recovery. I did
DATY and used a rubber for sex. She did a BBBJ and DFK. There
you are.

What is your point here???

I had "The Aids nightmare" a few weeks back.  Woke up in a panic, and didn't sleep well for several days.  No real reason for it.  My activities are relatively low risk.  Oral isn't always covered but everything else is.  But being relatively new to the hobby, well, my subconscious took over.

The only things I could do to really release the stress were to limit my hobby activities to massages and get tested.  

Getting tested was hard.  I was pretty damned scared.  Got the results and I am happy to report that I am sleeping well again.  

I will still limit my activities to the lowest risk I can.  The last thing I need this hobby to do is add stress to my life.  

So, for now it's FBSM & Tantra.  At least until temptation gets the better of me.  There are a couple providers I'd still love to see, but I don't know that I'd have the fortitude to tell them no more DATY.

By posting--even including the name as well as the location of the provider--you do a real service to all of us.  Even though it appeared that a previous poster was fraudulently slurring a provider, one shouldn't be shy--at all--about posting who you think gave you STD's.  Like all here, I am sorry for your troubles and hope the cure works.

At what point is privacy more important than safety?  Do you know if this provider has done the right thing and told us what's happened, or are you willing to tell us who it is?  Yes, it's a risk we take in this hobby, but don't we deserve to know what's going on?

I guess I'm not the only one with nightmears.......
No more DATY for me but BBBJ I can't resist.

Plus your math is off.

fr

Always Your Choice is a great discreet little clinic on East 12th right off of Broadway. The guy who runs it is Marc Gossin, he is a completely understanding guy, treats a lot of gay clinets who are HIV+. Decent STD testing is surprisingly expensive though, a basic HIV elisa test is about $100 and that will only tell you if you're making HIV antibodies after 3 months from exposure. The best HIV test will pick up the virus after 1 month from contact, it's called the PCR test, or sometimes called the DNA amplification test, but it is criminally expensive, $500 or the cost of one nice little date. The PCR is considered definitive if its done right, the elisa test is pretty accurate but not good enought for the adult video business after a male porn star infected a half dozen girls with HIV. I look at it this way, the hobby is expensive so go in with your eyes open and be realistic about your health upkeep costs too. There are reckless, unconscious, and just plain stupid people doing it so conduct yourself like you're on the road on new years eve with drunks weaving in and out of fast moving traffic. Would you rather be driving a safe vehicle or a sputtering junker with bald tires ?

You're kidding right??!!??

in a moment of weakness.  I wish I hadn't.  No problems so far, but with me...a good CBJ is just as good as BBBJ and far less risk.

This is too important not to post the name of the provider
They take our cash - if they cannot police themselves with health issues, we like-minded types need to

for all our sakes why don't you tell us who is the young lady, or does misery love company

I will NOT allow a name for this lady to be posted! There is no way for me or anyone here to know that this information is true. If you want to contact Gypsycat, he can leave an email and you can contact him by that means.

There is too much of a chance for a provider to be wrongly accused in something like this. I am in no way saying that Gypsycat is lying or trying to harm a ladies reputation. But unless the lady wants to step up and admit it, I have to allow for the chance that he may be wrong.

You can't post it, so can we PM you or can you give us an
email address?  If you have to, set up an email just for
this purpose.

thanks,
fr

With all the BS rumors that circulate in the escort world, one
never knows what is a fact and what is a lie. It would be a shame to see an escort's reputation go down the drain just because of an unconfirmed rumor.

24 was a typo for 44..and I was kidding..

thought everyone here has a sense of humor...

Didn't know if this poster was on a crusade, just kidding,
or telling the truth...

It would also be a shame if the rumor were true and others
get infected.

fr

You can always backchannel to the original poster via PM.

tried that and got no response

Frankie-
How can we tell if it is true? Just because someone says something doesn't always mean that it is true. This could be a rumor that was started by a jealous provider. Even if a name is given we will never know if the rumor is true. I think the moderator made the right call ny not posting any names.

Happy Hunting!
JD

I was asking the original poster how to get the info -
e.g. through PM or email.

look at my original reply.

fr


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he PMed me but offered ONLY that she was blonde.
Nothing further as far as info is concerned.
That really narrowed it down.

I have no reason to doubt the dude but he just isn't
handling this in the right way.

fr

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