So I have a quick question. I recently booked a meeting with a lady in Manhattan who happens to be located really close to my office. I originally got screened last week, and requested a few dates. Yesterday we confirmed the day/time for tomorrow. Her rate was always the same on her site since she started working. Anyway, now I checked her site again as I was thinking of asking her for 2 hours instead of one, and I noticed that her rate has gone up by $ per hour.  

...IF anything is amiss she will let you know and you can make your decision about the future.

When we change our rates it is always going to surprise someone who saw the old rate previously. Let her know you are hoping this will be a first of many dates and she will likely understand.

You pay the rate that was shown on the site the day you booked the session. I don't know of any professional gal that would make you do otherwise.

I wouldn't assume either rate. Ask her prior to your get together and simply explain that when you had booked initially her rate was x and now you see it's z,which rate is she expecting from you? Asking prior avoids an uncomfortable situation on both ends.
Xoxo
Taylor

any problems.  

As BL points out in post below, many guys here are scared to death to talk rates before a session as many have been placed on DNS lists and worse for doing so.

...you actually sound reasonable. WTF happened!

I think it's all this heat. LOL

A lot of girls WONT ALLOW it.  

Actually thinking about it your correct. A lot of girls do freak with the mention of rates.  Your suggestion seems great.

This happened to me Devin. I saw her rate posted on her website and it was different than her ad. When I inquired what the rate I should pay was by email a few days before our date she responded angrily and said she never discusses rates! What was i suppose to do? I apologized to her but never heard back from her. I waited a week and contacted her again explaining my side of what happened and she never replied to me after that. I feel like I didn't do anything wrong and yet just me asking her to clarify her rate set her off. I would never ever discuss a ladies rates in the future. Now, I just go by her website and I always bring more than I think I need and hope for the best.

I agree with a lot of the points everyone is making, but I think you really strike it on the head. I feel like asking ahead of time can only lead to potential trouble.  

In my view, if a client set an appointment before rates are raised, he IS entitled to get the old rates for the first meeting.

I disagree, pay the extra $$ and bang the hell outa her . Get your $$ worth !

..I had no idea. IF that is true I am cancelling the cspatz scholarship fund for needy escorts in training at JDU.

Although it is great you want to come prepared .This provider may check the envelope and see the expected amount missing. That can also create a problem and lead to discussing rates.

I actually leave the envelope for the lady right away, before I freshen up in most cases so she'll have time to check it. I'm not someone who would try and cheat my way out of paying for something, but if this were any other business transaction, I'd expect that the initial rate be honored.  

and in reading your words specifically...

Well in person your right it is uncomfortable for the ladies or gents to discuss but not just that it's for safety reasons. There has been cases LE may pass screening show up and talk about rates on purpose. I personally have never been through that but I hear it happens.

know that the donation change would not apply to them, since they'd booked a session expecting to pay something different. I imagine many other providers work similarly- I think it's worth reaching out and asking! This is a circumstance in which it's very appropriate to discuss rates.
xoxoxox
Harlowe

I tend to book appointments well  in advance (particularly when I travel), and so this is something that happens to me pretty regularly. The first few times I was a bit dismayed and debated how to handle it.  However after a few times I finally settled on an approach the works well for me.  Specifically when I'm confirming the appointment a few days ahead of time, I very discretely mention that I noticed there had been some changes in the information on her website and I tell her I am looking for some guidance from her on how to proceed.  In almost every case (all but one iirc), I received a polite note back saying that they would of course honor the rate listed at the time of booking.  When this happens I thank them for their generosity and tell them I will try to reciprocate in kind ( i.e. think tip).  In the one case where this didn't occur. let's just say that the meeting didn't occur.  

and you haven't already confirmed the amount of time you want to spend with her, maybe you should book her for 1.5 hours if she has that time on the website.

Nice post, undercover. That method seems to be very reasonable and to the point.

Thanks for the replies everyone. I went ahead and asked her ahead of time as the more I thought about it, the more it just seemed not worth any awkward/surprising situation during our meeting. She was very sweet about it, and seemed surprised that I asked. Her reply was basically "you booked last week so of course the rate will be what it was at booking".

Yayyy! Im so glad everything worked out. eom

-- Modified on 7/8/2016 5:40:19 AM

If that's what she advertised then that's what you pay. A lot of ladies advertise a different rate than what's on their website.  
For many different reasons. But if you are paying what's advertised there is no reason to pay more. That's BS.

I used to see a provider who, unbeknownst to me, was actually fronted by a service. I'd receive emails from her, but in fact, they were from the service pretending to be her. Then she left town, but from time to time I'd receive an email from her recommending someone else who was in town.

Is not gentlemen just should ask how he may make a safe deposit?