Posted By: blue6314
I have been privy to knowing the type of guys some escorts date in "real life." Here are two observations or angles that I find interesting -- and, to be clear, my evidence is entirely anecdotal:
1. All of the guys that I know who have dated escorts, without fail, have these characteristics: 1) they are muscle guys; 2) don't earn that much money and 3) do not have extensive formal education. It's interesting, to begin with, because a large number of hobbyists are the complete opposite!
Beyond that, I find this interesting because there are a lot of women out there in the general public who are not into muscle guys at all, but again many providers are, to a higher degree I suggest than women, generally. I wonder if it relates to the fact that a higher percentage of providers than women in the general public have had plastic surgery to augment their physiques, and therefore, they would just tend to be more attracted to that type of guy who has augmented his physique through lifting? Kind of like athletes are often attracted to other athletes, intellectuals to other intellectuals.... there is a sameness to it.
2. My second point is related. I think a lot of guys would assume that because escorts have sex for money, their goal would be to marry a rich man who would give them tons of money and who they would have sex with. That it would formalize, make more secure, and be more financially beneficial than the escort-client relationship. My first point, if true, would seem to refute that, and in fact, I think many escorts are not looking for that - or maybe look for it less than your average girl at the meatpacking district on a Saturday night.
I think that is an interesting paradox, and one that many men who think in a linear fashion have a difficult time understanding. They think and act in a more simple way -- they pay to have sex with hot women, and many would actually like to be in a relationship with one and get the sex for free. So they apply that same reasoning to escorts.
But the escort civvie relationships I have seen make sense, in a way. Escorting is just a job to them, so they can have financial security and the ability to get things in life they want, and they do not want to marry or be involved with the type of guy who is their client, may not even be attracted to him in the least, but instead want to be with someone as a couple who they are attracted to. It's just a job, and escorting and their private life are two different things. Apples and oranges. Escorting is not something they do while waiting for a rich man to scoop them up.
Anyway, those are my two points. There you go.....
