It seemed to help out a number of people.
This next post is self-explanatory. I'm afraid it reads a bit like Gray's Anatomy, but...
Posted by loverofwomen , 5/26/2003 6:48:37 AM
Grafenburg's ganglia (or G-Spot) is not a myth. It exists on all women, and it's primary function is thought to mitigate pain during childbirth.
When properly stimulated, the G-Spot can produce a different type of orgasm from those produced by clitoral, or vaginal stimulation. These G-Spot orgasms have been described to me as not only more intense than the other two, but also as having a deeper, whole-body quality, as well as having the potential (when done properly) of lasting well over a minute.
In addition, G-Spot stimulation can be combined with stimulation of the clitoris, and/or anus to produce a combined, or blended orgasm. These little beauties have the differing qualities and intensities of each type, all combined. This is a good way to make lots of new friends.
It's not uncommon for a woman who's had a blended orgasm to pass out for as long as ten seconds (the French call it, "the little death"). This scared the hell out of me the first time it happened. I also keep facial tissues by both sides of my bed, because I've made several ladies cry. It's a reaction to the intensity of the release.
One should also be prepared for squirting (see my earlier post on Skene's paraurethral glands).
The G-Spot is located along the upper vaginal wall, behind the pubic bone. It's (isn't evolution wonderful?) about a finger's distance in. At that position, the vagina opens out, and forms a notch above and behind the bone. If you feel around in there, you'll find a spot that feels a little like the roof of your mouth. Just beyond that area, is a soft, smooth surface. That's the general location of the G-Spot.
The G-Spot, of course, isn't in exactly the same place in all women, and as always, each woman reacts differently. Unlike stimulating the clitoris, one should avoid stimulating the G-Spot until the woman is already fully aroused. Stimulating the G-Spot too early can be unpleasant. And initially, the pressure exerted should be very gentle.
As far as pregnancy's concerned, AngelStar's right. The fluid produced at the tip of the penis during early arousal can contain over ten times the density of sperm as is contained in semen. Moreover, simply contacting the moistened opening of the vagina or labia minora while producing this, "pre-cum," can distribute enough sperm to ensure at least one reaches the ovum. These little guys can travel all the way into, and through the vagina, through the cervix and uterus, and up into the fallopian tubes before they die.
What's even more disturbing (for those wishing to avoid pregnancy) is sperm cells can live up to five days inside a woman. So, even if she's not ovulating at the time of insertion, a woman can still get pregnant under the right (or wrong) circumstances.
I hope this has been helpful. I imagine, right now, having a nun in the family isn't looking too bad.
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Posted by loverofwomen , 5/2/2004 3:42:06 PM
I've had very few guests who've forbidden the insertion of a finger or two into their vaginas. Of course, some level of trust must be devloped first. But, when done correctly, the results can be very gratifying.
This post was in reply to an original post discussing the ABCs of cunnilingus:
It's all in the wrist...
Posted by loverofwomen , 5/2/2003 9:16:03 AM [Go to loverofwomen's Reviews]
I usually position my love du jur on her back with her hips on a thick pillow. I then have easy access to everything from her anus up. Once I have the major and minor labia nicely engorged, and lubrication running well, I move my attention to the clit, and ease my index and middle fingers into her vagina, with my palm up. My chin fits into the heal of my palm, and my pinky can be eased into the anus.
My hand can then be moved gently in and out, providing stimulation to both the vagina and anus. I also move my index and middle fingers back and forth. This technique can be used to provide direct stimulation to the G spot.
When I wish to move away from the clit, I simply rotate my forearm down, so my hand and arm are positioned as if I were carrying a pocketbook. This allows access to the delicate area between the clit and the vagina.
Of course, I remove my hand when I wish to rotate through areas other than the clit, and its immediate area.
I can, and have, maintained this position for periods longer than an hour, and even then, have only stopped at the request of the object of my affection, not because I'm tried or uncomfortable.
Naturally, these techniques must be modified from lady to lady. Oddly enough, some prefer no fingers in their vagina, claiming it's a distraction. Others say the three finger approach makes all the difference.
I'm nothing if not flexible.
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~~~ I have one guy, who drives all the way from DC to meet me once a month. He loves it and knows exactly how to get me going. When I'm scheduled to meet him, I have to get extra paddings and lots of sheets because there is not one single dry spot in the bed after we're done. A woman needs to be very sexual and feel comfortable with her body to experiment with her G-Spot. I'm glad I found mine, it's a wonderful feeling.