I'm not a fan of DATY, don't particularly enjoy it even though I often do it.  My question for the ladies is this:  Will I get just as good service & performance if I don't DATY?  Frankly, I'm spending time and lots of money for my enjoyment, not the lady's.  Would appreciate your thoughts on this.  Thanks.

Tons of guys don't do DATY with escorts.  For some it's a fear of STD's.  For some, it's just preference.

If you do not enjoy giving DATY, I might sense that. DATY is more than your skilled technique or my aroused nerve endings. My "apricot" is a sensitive soul, and she is likely to be "emotionally" disappointed in your distaste even if she is physically stimulated.

I mostly enjoy oral if its in a 69 position, but I can take it or leave professionally and personally.  

I'd suspect they'd be more disappointing with your comment that you are spending time/money for your enjoyment, not hers.

with anyone who was not professional enough to convince me they enjoyed it. And I've repeated plenty. It's my MO. Like a woodpecker tapping trees.  

are turned on when a woman is turned on...Mutual is always better after 40..so I am sooo confused..even porn shows a woman being aroused..are you jut a lazy fuck?..no wonder you have to pay!!! no  woman in her right mind is going to want to be with you long term


what for?

I'm a giver for sure. It's not about being an animal and attacking the love button. But if the gal wants her love button attacked, I'm down for that too.  

You have to get me wet or allow me to get my self wet. No one is goin to force you baby unless that's what your into which in that case call me lol

And enjoy doing this immensely.  For me, the foreplay, which DATY is a major part, is as big as the main act.  Pleasuring a woman?  What's wrong with that?  Trust me, she'll reciprocate...

I was reading "pimping Ain't Easy" online and came across an anecdote from the early life of Donald Campbell AKA Don the Magic Juan, internationally known pimp. His sister saw young Donald, then ten, making out with two twelve year olds. She asked him what the hell he thought he was doing. Donald replied," We ain't doin' nothing. These girls promised to make me feel good. They lied. I got them feeling better than me!". Here endeth the lesson.

Those of you who love to DATY must try Pie-In-The-Sky with the ladies.
It is one of the hottest ways to dine on sweet young flesh  - if they are flexible enough.
http://www.sexinfo101.com/pieinthesky.shtml

It is all about the STD risk.  I love giving DATY, but am getting nervous about he health risk.  What do the ladies have to say?