Tons of guys don't do DATY with escorts.  For some it's a fear of STD's.  For some, it's just preference.

No provider, ever, will tell you that you'll get worse service if you don't do it.  That would be like saying "Yes, I will give you poor service."  No one would ever admit that.

However, my experience is that his particular item has no affect on the level of service you will get.  

The items that affect the service that you get are your hygiene and your attitude.  If you are clean, respectful and pay the full amount without trying to haggle, then you will get the best service

If you do not enjoy giving DATY, I might sense that. DATY is more than your skilled technique or my aroused nerve endings. My "apricot" is a sensitive soul, and she is likely to be "emotionally" disappointed in your distaste even if she is physically stimulated.

It is good to give and to receive if both enjoy it. Just choose the activities that you enjoy doing!

Waterclone's reply in this thread is on target. Just leave out the DATY in your case. It will not diminish my efforts at pleasing you one bit.

Vanessa

P.S. QUESTION: In the photo below ... is the gentleman enjoying the apricot or not? LO

I mostly enjoy oral if its in a 69 position, but I can take it or leave professionally and personally.  

There might be an std issue for me, too. I've never had so much as a fever blister and I'm pretty protective of my lady area!  
The horror!  

Then there's the garlic issue. I will NOT let anyone go down on me if they remotely smell of garlic.  EW!  

Anna xx

I'd suspect they'd be more disappointing with your comment that you are spending time/money for your enjoyment, not hers.

In my experience, it's more fun when she has fun too.

with anyone who was not professional enough to convince me they enjoyed it. And I've repeated plenty. It's my MO. Like a woodpecker tapping trees.  

Besides.....all my repeat friends have had a heap of opportunities to keep me away from the apricot. For some reason, they never do. Of course, they are all 'professional' so who really knows?

Lastly: Doing it with success (she Os and writhes and flushes red) turns me on like a power-plant. Almost nothing else arouses me like a freshly well-pleasured woman. Why? Because I got next.....Haha!

P.S. - And I don't mind if she uses her vibrator. Makes for a DATY duo. And unimpeachable results.  

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Men over 40 (awesome)

are turned on when a woman is turned on...Mutual is always better after 40..so I am sooo confused..even porn shows a woman being aroused..are you jut a lazy fuck?..no wonder you have to pay!!! no  woman in her right mind is going to want to be with you long term


what for?

I'm a giver for sure. It's not about being an animal and attacking the love button. But if the gal wants her love button attacked, I'm down for that too.  

Communicate with the lady that you're with. Be honest, If you don't want to do it, she'll find other ways to get herself off with you and if she isn't down with it, you know to skip it and move onto another fun activity. There's so much to choose from.  

nyca

You have to get me wet or allow me to get my self wet. No one is goin to force you baby unless that's what your into which in that case call me lol

Kyla

And enjoy doing this immensely.  For me, the foreplay, which DATY is a major part, is as big as the main act.  Pleasuring a woman?  What's wrong with that?  Trust me, she'll reciprocate...

I was reading "pimping Ain't Easy" online and came across an anecdote from the early life of Donald Campbell AKA Don the Magic Juan, internationally known pimp. His sister saw young Donald, then ten, making out with two twelve year olds. She asked him what the hell he thought he was doing. Donald replied," We ain't doin' nothing. These girls promised to make me feel good. They lied. I got them feeling better than me!". Here endeth the lesson.

For DATY lovers

Those of you who love to DATY must try Pie-In-The-Sky with the ladies.
It is one of the hottest ways to dine on sweet young flesh  - if they are flexible enough.
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