I will pretend to ignore the poor(& pathetic) use of the English language and grammar in this long winded spiraling out of control confusing paragraph and would like to ask fellow hobbyist if any of you do use Paypal or mail checks/money orders to providers?? Talk about not being discreet, its cash or I don't see the provider, the less paper trail the better, at least in my book.
As far as OP's original question, I would assume the more crowded the place the better, less chance of you being noticed, that being said, I don't feel safe in going to a provider's house/apartment either.
Posted By: Serafima
1. May be it is a level of providers you see but why do you make an assumptions that you and her doing something illegal and that hotel will report you ?
it is just matter who and how you see
2. Invite a women - as I am - who never have been arrested, never have escort phone on her when she comes she has to have clean phone used talk to you as you both have business meeting
3. She has to have few email address as well - for any case- but it mostly - for her end - when she bookes hotel she never use her escort emal or phone - and you know how many women do use the same ?? Hotel manager just can google e mail phone provided and he knows ALL
3. Why you go to a woman whom you do not give a credits to be wise and professional ?
4. Never have cash on you in envelope - find the ways to pass her money other way - may be paypall ( and AGAIN !!!! her paypall SHOULD NOT be tied up to HER escorting site !!!- clean email
then NO ONE FOR GOD SAKE WOULD NOT GUESS that here is sex trade goes on ..
you said - not meet in the lobby ??
I often meet my dates in the lobby as couple or for date ..or for business who knows WHY we are here ??
of course I come clean as I indicated .. my dates actually calling to front desk letting me in in elevator need the key .. we making love then going down to bar or on roof top to drin them come for more
who knows I am from TER ??!!! unless he started panc as as you said - follows in front of her and making appreance that he dosnot know her but sneaking her in the door ha ha !!! see how funny and obviously it is ??
it is .. you know as watch an erotic movie - if director is ashamed and not comfortable with scenes he is shooting - he never will have good erotic scenes and public will see his red ears and face from the screen not a erotica ..
why .. why may I ask to out yourself in to such scary and not fun with providers who are not safe low fly and will act not safe just naive and irresponsible not say just stupid ..
and can get you in to the trouble by sighing in hotel with her escort email and having her phone on her ??
Of course I do know that many of you just hate to make deposits .. then p to certain amount girls alos do not want have it to be reported to IRS On Form M 1099 .. so .. envelopes can not be avoid yes .. but LE can be avoided if you - will
PLAN CHECK TALK and NOT GRREDY to see nice provider

I think Iam nice .. my dates just trust me and with pay pall and with dates and we have nasty naughty times as it should be - free of worry!!!
and free of fear
then- do not request her come over as a cheap whore to The Chatwalk or NYC palace .. you know what I mean ?? always instruct her how she shoud be dressed if you .. sorry picking up someone you doubt- then _ YOU SHOULD meet her down !!!
( so it not be as I sa once in opera - there was cleint escort couple - she was soo trashy dressed and so poor girl uncomphy in her shiny to batt dress open back ovr 160 pounds ... and he was 80 old .. if you do not want look like that - open not just your wallet but your brains too  

find your style and trust me - there are MANY (not just I am ) safe classy naughty PSE GFE G Goddess providers with whom you never take any risks whatever hotel it will be
So for me sorry it was sooo strange even to read this e mail .. God blessed me my dates not sneaking me in rooms as I am dirty criminal prostitute but dropping pay pall or green dot or checks by mail so I can cash ahead .. and then only sky is a limit .
HOPE it helps to understand how have adult fun and not worry to be arrested
Kissess